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Oscar Pistorius sentencing: Reeva Steenkamp's cousin says murder has turned celebrations into 'funeral' Oscar Pistorius sentencing: Reeva Steenkamp's cousin says murder has turned celebrations into 'funeral'
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Reeva Steenkamp’s cousin has described her father as a “broken man” as she described the harrowing impact of her death on the family.Reeva Steenkamp’s cousin has described her father as a “broken man” as she described the harrowing impact of her death on the family.
Oscar Pistorius sat in court with his head hung as Kim Martin gave evidence on the third day of his sentencing for murdering is girlfriend.Oscar Pistorius sat in court with his head hung as Kim Martin gave evidence on the third day of his sentencing for murdering is girlfriend.
“Not a day goes by without thinking about her,” she said. “As a family we will never be able to carry on like normal.“Not a day goes by without thinking about her,” she said. “As a family we will never be able to carry on like normal.
“I’m coping, yes, because you’ve got to get on with your life but the scars, the effect runs very deep.“I’m coping, yes, because you’ve got to get on with your life but the scars, the effect runs very deep.
“I’m the mother of three children, so I have to cope…I have to be strong for them.”“I’m the mother of three children, so I have to cope…I have to be strong for them.”
Ms Martin told the court in South Africa that birthdays, Christmas and other celebrations had become a “funeral” since Ms Steenkamp’s death.Ms Martin told the court in South Africa that birthdays, Christmas and other celebrations had become a “funeral” since Ms Steenkamp’s death.
“Valentine’s Day is the worst day for us,” she added. “Barry (Ms Steenkamp’s) father is a broken man.” “Valentine’s Day is the worst day for us,” she added. “I saw my father cry for the very first time when Reeva died...Barry (Ms Steenkamp’s) father is a broken man."
Giving evidence yesterday, he said his daughter’s murder had  “devastated” his family.Giving evidence yesterday, he said his daughter’s murder had  “devastated” his family.
In a voice shaking with emotion, Barry Steenkamp revealed he has tried to imagine the horrific moment of his daughter's death, and said: “Oscar has to pay for what he did.”In a voice shaking with emotion, Barry Steenkamp revealed he has tried to imagine the horrific moment of his daughter's death, and said: “Oscar has to pay for what he did.”
Charlotte Mashaban, a prison nurse, told the court Pistorius could be violent, having “tantrums” and becoming angry during her time treating him.
His lawyer, Barry Roux, contested the claim and accused her of embellishing her account of the incidents.
Pistorius, a former Paralympic champion, has been convicted of murdering his girlfriend at his home on Valentine’s Day in 2013 in a case that transfixed the world.Pistorius, a former Paralympic champion, has been convicted of murdering his girlfriend at his home on Valentine’s Day in 2013 in a case that transfixed the world.
The double-amputee, who also competed at the 2012 London Olympics, is currently under house arrest after initially serving one year of a five-year prison sentence for manslaughter for shooting Ms Steenkamp at his Pretoria home.The double-amputee, who also competed at the 2012 London Olympics, is currently under house arrest after initially serving one year of a five-year prison sentence for manslaughter for shooting Ms Steenkamp at his Pretoria home.
That conviction was overturned last year by an appeals court, which convicted Pistorius of the more serious charge of murder.That conviction was overturned last year by an appeals court, which convicted Pistorius of the more serious charge of murder.
Judge Thokozile Masipa, who initially acquitted Pistorius of murder, will decide the new sentence in a hearing scheduled to run until Friday.Judge Thokozile Masipa, who initially acquitted Pistorius of murder, will decide the new sentence in a hearing scheduled to run until Friday.
Pistorius shot Ms Steenkamp, a model and reality television star, several times through a toilet door. Pistorius shot Ms Steenkamp, a model and reality television star, several times through a toilet door. 
He claimed in his trial that he thought his house had been broken into, and that he opened fire in the belief that an intruder was hiding in the small room.He claimed in his trial that he thought his house had been broken into, and that he opened fire in the belief that an intruder was hiding in the small room.
Ms Martin told the court the family wanted to know “the truth” and for Pistorius to apologised for the killing.Ms Martin told the court the family wanted to know “the truth” and for Pistorius to apologised for the killing.
South Africa has a minimum sentence of 15 years in prison for murder, although it can be reduced by a judge.South Africa has a minimum sentence of 15 years in prison for murder, although it can be reduced by a judge.