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Wedding rings on a budget: 'It's the love that matters' | Wedding rings on a budget: 'It's the love that matters' |
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When Ariel McRae and husband-to-be Quinn went shopping for wedding rings, they didn't give a thought to what people would think about the price. | When Ariel McRae and husband-to-be Quinn went shopping for wedding rings, they didn't give a thought to what people would think about the price. |
The couple, both 22, from Tennessee, in the US, met online in 2014 and love blossomed soon afterwards. | The couple, both 22, from Tennessee, in the US, met online in 2014 and love blossomed soon afterwards. |
"If we had our way, we would have got married three months after we met," Ariel told the BBC. | "If we had our way, we would have got married three months after we met," Ariel told the BBC. |
Full-time student Ariel and car service adviser Quinn decided to get married on 18 November, exactly two years after their first date. | Full-time student Ariel and car service adviser Quinn decided to get married on 18 November, exactly two years after their first date. |
But there was the small matter of buying the engagement and wedding rings. | But there was the small matter of buying the engagement and wedding rings. |
It was just under a week before their big day and so the couple decided to go shopping. | It was just under a week before their big day and so the couple decided to go shopping. |
"We went to the mall and knew we could afford to buy the rings from Pandora," says Ariel. | "We went to the mall and knew we could afford to buy the rings from Pandora," says Ariel. |
"One lady who worked there was very nice and helpful. I saw engagement and wedding rings that I loved for $130 (£103)." | "One lady who worked there was very nice and helpful. I saw engagement and wedding rings that I loved for $130 (£103)." |
But when another shop assistant saw what the couple were buying, it prompted her to make some unusual comments to the customers. | But when another shop assistant saw what the couple were buying, it prompted her to make some unusual comments to the customers. |
Ariel said: "The woman came over and said to me in front of my fiance: 'Can you believe that some men get these as engagement rings? How pathetic. My boyfriend has already saved up $30,000 (£23,565) for my rings and he has just started'. | Ariel said: "The woman came over and said to me in front of my fiance: 'Can you believe that some men get these as engagement rings? How pathetic. My boyfriend has already saved up $30,000 (£23,565) for my rings and he has just started'. |
"I was speechless. My fiance's face fell, and he was already worried about not being able to afford nice rings." | "I was speechless. My fiance's face fell, and he was already worried about not being able to afford nice rings." |
In response to the shop assistant's remarks, Ariel said: "It's not the size of the ring but the love that matters. | In response to the shop assistant's remarks, Ariel said: "It's not the size of the ring but the love that matters. |
"She stared at me and then walked away." | "She stared at me and then walked away." |
Social media storm | Social media storm |
Ariel's story took off after she wrote a Facebook post about her experience. | Ariel's story took off after she wrote a Facebook post about her experience. |
"I remember reading a blogpost last year about how a woman's family and friends kept putting down her rings. So I felt inspired to write something." | "I remember reading a blogpost last year about how a woman's family and friends kept putting down her rings. So I felt inspired to write something." |
Ariel wrote on her Facebook post: "I would have gotten married to this man if it had been a 25 cent gum ball machine ring. | Ariel wrote on her Facebook post: "I would have gotten married to this man if it had been a 25 cent gum ball machine ring. |
"When did our nation fall so far to think the only way a man can truly love a woman is if he buys her $3,000+ jewellery?" | "When did our nation fall so far to think the only way a man can truly love a woman is if he buys her $3,000+ jewellery?" |
Ariel's post went from 100 shares after the first day it was published to 45,000 shares on the third day. | Ariel's post went from 100 shares after the first day it was published to 45,000 shares on the third day. |
"I was shocked - I usually struggle to get 30 likes on a Facebook post," she says. | "I was shocked - I usually struggle to get 30 likes on a Facebook post," she says. |
"I had so many alerts that the app kept crashing." | "I had so many alerts that the app kept crashing." |
Her story has now been shared more than 53,000 times and has received 63,000 likes on Facebook. | Her story has now been shared more than 53,000 times and has received 63,000 likes on Facebook. |
It has attracted interest around the world and people have even been posting their own budget rings in solidarity. | It has attracted interest around the world and people have even been posting their own budget rings in solidarity. |
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Future plans | Future plans |
So what's next for the young couple? | So what's next for the young couple? |
"We're planning to move into a townhouse in Jackson. We just want to spend time together in our first year of marriage." | "We're planning to move into a townhouse in Jackson. We just want to spend time together in our first year of marriage." |
Ariel said other people have since commented on the rings - some have said that she could upgrade them when she could afford to do so. | Ariel said other people have since commented on the rings - some have said that she could upgrade them when she could afford to do so. |
But even if Ariel and Quinn could afford more expensive rings in the future they would not change them. | But even if Ariel and Quinn could afford more expensive rings in the future they would not change them. |
"The rings explain our love," says Ariel. | "The rings explain our love," says Ariel. |
"We started non-conventionally and spontaneously and these rings express who we are as a couple." | "We started non-conventionally and spontaneously and these rings express who we are as a couple." |
Interview by Andree Massiah, UGC Hub & Social News team | Interview by Andree Massiah, UGC Hub & Social News team |
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