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Civil partnerships: 'I want it to happen before my partner dies' | Civil partnerships: 'I want it to happen before my partner dies' |
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Joanna and Stephen never wanted to marry. | Joanna and Stephen never wanted to marry. |
But they have always wanted to make a "public declaration" of their relationship - and this became even more pressing when Stephen was diagnosed with an aggressive form of cancer six years ago. | But they have always wanted to make a "public declaration" of their relationship - and this became even more pressing when Stephen was diagnosed with an aggressive form of cancer six years ago. |
They went to their local registry office and found, to their great surprise, that they weren't allowed a civil partnership. | They went to their local registry office and found, to their great surprise, that they weren't allowed a civil partnership. |
So they waited. | So they waited. |
And waited. | And waited. |
Now it's been announced that all couples in England and Wales - not just same-sex couples - will be able to choose to have a civil partnership rather than get married. | Now it's been announced that all couples in England and Wales - not just same-sex couples - will be able to choose to have a civil partnership rather than get married. |
But for this couple, at least, it's not about finances or security. | But for this couple, at least, it's not about finances or security. |
"It would just be nice to share some public declaration, particularly with our children," says Stephen Anderson, 57. | "It would just be nice to share some public declaration, particularly with our children," says Stephen Anderson, 57. |
"And there is urgency because I'm living with this illness. It would be a jolly nice thing to do." | "And there is urgency because I'm living with this illness. It would be a jolly nice thing to do." |
The couple have been together for 30 years and have three grown-up children. | The couple have been together for 30 years and have three grown-up children. |
Joanna Christina, 63, a retired teacher who now runs a vegan street food business, and Stephen, a retired lecturer, are opposed to marriage because they feel it is outdated. | Joanna Christina, 63, a retired teacher who now runs a vegan street food business, and Stephen, a retired lecturer, are opposed to marriage because they feel it is outdated. |
For them the attraction of a civil partnership lies in the fact it "hasn't been socially defined yet - it leaves us to define what we want it to mean". | For them the attraction of a civil partnership lies in the fact it "hasn't been socially defined yet - it leaves us to define what we want it to mean". |
"It is more egalitarian. It's a partnership… Civil partnerships are the way ahead for those who value liberalism," explains Joanna. | "It is more egalitarian. It's a partnership… Civil partnerships are the way ahead for those who value liberalism," explains Joanna. |
When? When? When? | When? When? When? |
There is no timescale for any law change - and the couple's disappointment at this is all too clear. | There is no timescale for any law change - and the couple's disappointment at this is all too clear. |
"We want to know when - when, when, when - is this going to happen?" says Joanna. | "We want to know when - when, when, when - is this going to happen?" says Joanna. |
She is confident that without June's Supreme Court ruling the government "would be doing nothing". | She is confident that without June's Supreme Court ruling the government "would be doing nothing". |
"We need a timetable now." | "We need a timetable now." |
"I'm fed up and frustrated," adds Stephen. | "I'm fed up and frustrated," adds Stephen. |
"I'm not delighted that it's been announced because it's been a great frustration that it hasn't been allowed from the first instance." | "I'm not delighted that it's been announced because it's been a great frustration that it hasn't been allowed from the first instance." |
'Jolly good party' | 'Jolly good party' |
The campaign for Equal Civil Partnerships says it now hopes Joanna and Stephen will be one of the first different sex couples to form a civil partnership. | |
Stephen says he'd like the law change to happen "this afternoon" - but for now the couple, who live in Mytholmroyd, West Yorkshire, simply "celebrate each day" they have together. | Stephen says he'd like the law change to happen "this afternoon" - but for now the couple, who live in Mytholmroyd, West Yorkshire, simply "celebrate each day" they have together. |
And on the day the law changes? | And on the day the law changes? |
"We'd go and initiate the process immediately and then have a jolly good party!" says Stephen. | "We'd go and initiate the process immediately and then have a jolly good party!" says Stephen. |
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