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#icrybecause: Towie's male stars open up emotionally | |
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The Only Way Is Essex star Tommy Mallet wants to encourage other men to open up about their feelings. | The Only Way Is Essex star Tommy Mallet wants to encourage other men to open up about their feelings. |
Mallet, who has spoken about his mental health struggles during the current ITVBe series, has started a campaign #icrybecause on social media. | Mallet, who has spoken about his mental health struggles during the current ITVBe series, has started a campaign #icrybecause on social media. |
He said he had experienced "a tough few months" but wanted to use that to help people, adding "just letting you all know it's OK not to be OK". | He said he had experienced "a tough few months" but wanted to use that to help people, adding "just letting you all know it's OK not to be OK". |
His co-stars have also got involved, revealing what makes them cry. | His co-stars have also got involved, revealing what makes them cry. |
And it being Towie, they decided to support Mallet's movement by holding up signs stating what makes them feel emotional... and taking their clothes off - #boysbareall. | And it being Towie, they decided to support Mallet's movement by holding up signs stating what makes them feel emotional... and taking their clothes off - #boysbareall. |
During an episode of Towie last month Mallet, 26, talked about a period in his life when he was struggling to cope. | During an episode of Towie last month Mallet, 26, talked about a period in his life when he was struggling to cope. |
He said: "I just sat there and looked at a wall. I couldn't leave the house. I know it was only a few days it happened to me but still. It was scary." | He said: "I just sat there and looked at a wall. I couldn't leave the house. I know it was only a few days it happened to me but still. It was scary." |
His comments prompted many people to get in touch with him on social media - and he has now called on other men to "speak up". | His comments prompted many people to get in touch with him on social media - and he has now called on other men to "speak up". |
He tweeted: "It's time to get the conversation going." | He tweeted: "It's time to get the conversation going." |
His fellow Towie star Liam Gatsby responded by posting about missing his father, who died 20 years ago, with a picture of his dad's number calling his mobile. | His fellow Towie star Liam Gatsby responded by posting about missing his father, who died 20 years ago, with a picture of his dad's number calling his mobile. |
He wrote: "Sometimes I wish this call would come through - you don't know how lucky you are so appreciate your parents because you don't know how long they'll be around for." | He wrote: "Sometimes I wish this call would come through - you don't know how lucky you are so appreciate your parents because you don't know how long they'll be around for." |
He later added: "This movement is really close to my heart as #icrybecause I miss my family and really miss my dad." | He later added: "This movement is really close to my heart as #icrybecause I miss my family and really miss my dad." |
Another member of the Towie cast, Pete Wicks, said he cries because he feels like "no-one understands and I struggle to express myself properly". | Another member of the Towie cast, Pete Wicks, said he cries because he feels like "no-one understands and I struggle to express myself properly". |
And Mallet's post saw many people reply, praising him for his honesty and opening up about their own experiences. | And Mallet's post saw many people reply, praising him for his honesty and opening up about their own experiences. |
One Instagram user replied: "I'm glad something is being done for men. My brother took his own life nearly eight years ago because he couldn't talk about his feelings. | One Instagram user replied: "I'm glad something is being done for men. My brother took his own life nearly eight years ago because he couldn't talk about his feelings. |
"People don't think about men and to show you cry is a great thing - your feelings matter." | "People don't think about men and to show you cry is a great thing - your feelings matter." |
The campaign coincides with World Mental Health Day on 10 October. | The campaign coincides with World Mental Health Day on 10 October. |
If you are struggling to cope, you can call Samaritans free on 116 123 (UK and Ireland) or visit the BBC Action Line website. | If you are struggling to cope, you can call Samaritans free on 116 123 (UK and Ireland) or visit the BBC Action Line website. |
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