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American Muslims face a lonely Ramadan during lockdown | American Muslims face a lonely Ramadan during lockdown |
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Families prepare for online prayers and virtual gatherings in a month of fasting typically marked by human connection | Families prepare for online prayers and virtual gatherings in a month of fasting typically marked by human connection |
Shaista Shiraz, 34, doesn’t have many friends in Westchester county, north of Manhattan. She left her hometown of Atlanta, Georgia, five years ago after her divorce to settle in New York, the only other place she had family. | |
Between settling in a new city and raising her two children, Shiraz didn’t have many friends. During Ramadan, the lack of companionship always hit the hardest. This year will be even more difficult for her. | |
With Ramadan starting on 23 April, Muslims around the world will refrain from food and drink every day from sunrise to sunset during the holiest month in Islam. But this year, Covid-19 will rob millions of Muslims across the US from congregating for prayers, iftar and other Ramadan customs. | With Ramadan starting on 23 April, Muslims around the world will refrain from food and drink every day from sunrise to sunset during the holiest month in Islam. But this year, Covid-19 will rob millions of Muslims across the US from congregating for prayers, iftar and other Ramadan customs. |
Mosques don’t just host daily free iftar (the meal eaten after sunset). They host fundraisers, mixers and lectures, all an integral part of the celebration. Following most iftars, Muslims go to the mosque for a communal prayer that can only be done during Ramadan, tarawih. | Mosques don’t just host daily free iftar (the meal eaten after sunset). They host fundraisers, mixers and lectures, all an integral part of the celebration. Following most iftars, Muslims go to the mosque for a communal prayer that can only be done during Ramadan, tarawih. |
This year, Muslims will have to go the virtual route. | This year, Muslims will have to go the virtual route. |
‘It is a test from God and we have a lot of lessons to learn’ | ‘It is a test from God and we have a lot of lessons to learn’ |
The Islamic Center of Central Missouri hosts upwards of 1,000 people at its weekly Friday service. Now, only 20 to 40 people are logging in to online events. Mosque leaders hope the turnout will increase as Ramadan starts. | The Islamic Center of Central Missouri hosts upwards of 1,000 people at its weekly Friday service. Now, only 20 to 40 people are logging in to online events. Mosque leaders hope the turnout will increase as Ramadan starts. |
“It is an experiment, it is a test from God and we have a lot of lessons to learn,” said Shakir Hamood, an imam. | “It is an experiment, it is a test from God and we have a lot of lessons to learn,” said Shakir Hamood, an imam. |
In March, the mosque closed, just a few weeks before Missouri issued a stay-at-home order. Soon, members came to terms with the new reality. | In March, the mosque closed, just a few weeks before Missouri issued a stay-at-home order. Soon, members came to terms with the new reality. |
Mohannad Al-Sammaraie and his wife, Eman, are physicians at the University of Missouri hospital. Mohannad and Eman have three children, including an infant. | Mohannad Al-Sammaraie and his wife, Eman, are physicians at the University of Missouri hospital. Mohannad and Eman have three children, including an infant. |
As Ramadan starts, the Al-Sammaraie family will have to face that new reality – while fasting. | As Ramadan starts, the Al-Sammaraie family will have to face that new reality – while fasting. |
“The human interaction is going to be missed and the tranquillity and the peace that one feels in the vicinity of the masjid [the mosque] is going to be missed,” Hamood said. “But all of us now understand the magnitude of the crisis.” | “The human interaction is going to be missed and the tranquillity and the peace that one feels in the vicinity of the masjid [the mosque] is going to be missed,” Hamood said. “But all of us now understand the magnitude of the crisis.” |
“The other day, my son Saif was counting the blessings of being home,” Mohannad said. The blessings include going to sleep and waking up whenever he wants, and attending school virtually in his pajamas. | “The other day, my son Saif was counting the blessings of being home,” Mohannad said. The blessings include going to sleep and waking up whenever he wants, and attending school virtually in his pajamas. |
But when the pandemic first hit the US, Saif, who is seven, became worried about the virus. With an iPad in hand, the seven-year-old would continually ask, “Hey Siri, how many cases of coronavirus in Missouri today?” | But when the pandemic first hit the US, Saif, who is seven, became worried about the virus. With an iPad in hand, the seven-year-old would continually ask, “Hey Siri, how many cases of coronavirus in Missouri today?” |
Despite this fear, the Al-Sammaraies are doing their best to keep up the Ramadan spirit at home. They’ve made a daily schedule assigning one person to teach the rest of the family a short Islamic lesson. | Despite this fear, the Al-Sammaraies are doing their best to keep up the Ramadan spirit at home. They’ve made a daily schedule assigning one person to teach the rest of the family a short Islamic lesson. |
Grocery shopping has also proved challenging. Eman went to a local Arab market two weeks ago to get ingredients for Ramadan meals, like lentils and dates. She’s also been using a grocery delivery app to get other groceries – including 10 loaves of bread she ordered last week. “Being able to shop was something that we never thought to be something we’ll miss, but it’s the new reality,” Mohannad said. | Grocery shopping has also proved challenging. Eman went to a local Arab market two weeks ago to get ingredients for Ramadan meals, like lentils and dates. She’s also been using a grocery delivery app to get other groceries – including 10 loaves of bread she ordered last week. “Being able to shop was something that we never thought to be something we’ll miss, but it’s the new reality,” Mohannad said. |
For iftar, the Al-Sammaraies typically break their fast with some water and a date, followed by lentil soup and a main course with rice or pasta. | For iftar, the Al-Sammaraies typically break their fast with some water and a date, followed by lentil soup and a main course with rice or pasta. |
After the meal, the Al-Sammaraies would normally go to the mosque for tarawih. Mohannad looked forward to listening to the Qur’an being recited by the imam, while his teenage daughter, Rawan, was excited to see her friends. | After the meal, the Al-Sammaraies would normally go to the mosque for tarawih. Mohannad looked forward to listening to the Qur’an being recited by the imam, while his teenage daughter, Rawan, was excited to see her friends. |
Instead, Rawan will be keeping up with her friends through Zoom calls hosted by the mosque’s youth program. They meet for an hour online three days a week to learn about Islam and play games like Pictionary together. | Instead, Rawan will be keeping up with her friends through Zoom calls hosted by the mosque’s youth program. They meet for an hour online three days a week to learn about Islam and play games like Pictionary together. |
Mohannad, on the other hand, feels a major part of his own spirituality – praying side by side with his community – will sadly be curtailed. “You are sharing the same ritual, the same actions, the same emotions with others,” Mohannad said. “You feel that you are not a minority, with our large community that shares the same values.” | Mohannad, on the other hand, feels a major part of his own spirituality – praying side by side with his community – will sadly be curtailed. “You are sharing the same ritual, the same actions, the same emotions with others,” Mohannad said. “You feel that you are not a minority, with our large community that shares the same values.” |
‘Loneliness has definitely taken a toll’ | ‘Loneliness has definitely taken a toll’ |
The Islamic Center at New York University, one of the most popular meet-up spots for prayer and daily iftars, serves about 10,000 Muslims across the city. Imam Khalid Latif, the center’s chaplain, estimates that approximately 1,000 people typically attend its free iftars every day. | The Islamic Center at New York University, one of the most popular meet-up spots for prayer and daily iftars, serves about 10,000 Muslims across the city. Imam Khalid Latif, the center’s chaplain, estimates that approximately 1,000 people typically attend its free iftars every day. |
“Loneliness has definitely taken a toll on many people that I know and many Muslims that I know as well,” said Latif. “Especially those who can’t go back to their families, but are living alone here in this city.” | “Loneliness has definitely taken a toll on many people that I know and many Muslims that I know as well,” said Latif. “Especially those who can’t go back to their families, but are living alone here in this city.” |
There are 3.45 million Muslims in the US as of 2017, according to Pew research. A fast-growing population, by 2040, Muslims are expected to be the second-largest religious group, after Christians. | There are 3.45 million Muslims in the US as of 2017, according to Pew research. A fast-growing population, by 2040, Muslims are expected to be the second-largest religious group, after Christians. |
Currently, Latif is planning online lectures and tailored prayers, but, like many other Muslim organizers in the city, Ramadan programming is still up in the air. | Currently, Latif is planning online lectures and tailored prayers, but, like many other Muslim organizers in the city, Ramadan programming is still up in the air. |
Mariam Bahawdory, the creator of the Muslim dating app Eshq, had events planned for Ramadan that are now null. | Mariam Bahawdory, the creator of the Muslim dating app Eshq, had events planned for Ramadan that are now null. |
“New York City is filled with students from across the country and people who move here for work,” said Bahawdory. “A lot of Muslims were relying on Ramadan for these events.” | “New York City is filled with students from across the country and people who move here for work,” said Bahawdory. “A lot of Muslims were relying on Ramadan for these events.” |
Instead of iftars at college campuses, volunteers’ homes or larger venues, Bahawdory has pivoted to online meet-ups on Zoom. “I know it’s not going to be the same,” said Bahawdory. “But we’re still connected, we’re still here, and we’ll be here all Ramadan.” | Instead of iftars at college campuses, volunteers’ homes or larger venues, Bahawdory has pivoted to online meet-ups on Zoom. “I know it’s not going to be the same,” said Bahawdory. “But we’re still connected, we’re still here, and we’ll be here all Ramadan.” |
Still, Shiraz hasn’t accepted the finality of a virtual Ramadan. She imagines how happy she could be if she could have an in-person iftar or prayer. | |
“No matter what was going on in my life or how lonely I felt,” said Shiraz, “during Ramadan, I felt most hopeful, the happiest, renewed, most excited about my life.” |