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On what was supposed to be their wedding night, Lindsey Leaverton and Bri Houk sat in their car on the top floor of a parking garage in North Austin and ate pizza, watched the sunset and finished off a Yeti full of champagne. “I put on a private concert for Bri and we danced under the stars,” Ms. Leaverton said.On what was supposed to be their wedding night, Lindsey Leaverton and Bri Houk sat in their car on the top floor of a parking garage in North Austin and ate pizza, watched the sunset and finished off a Yeti full of champagne. “I put on a private concert for Bri and we danced under the stars,” Ms. Leaverton said.
Ms. Leaverton, 37, and Ms. Houk, 31, met through the dating app HER. Their first date was 24 hours later, on Ms. Leaverton’s birthday. “It was the middle of June in 2018. I asked her to an outdoor concert where we drank red wine, had deep conversations, lots of laughter, and a divine connection. I knew that night she was my person,” Ms. Houk said.Ms. Leaverton, 37, and Ms. Houk, 31, met through the dating app HER. Their first date was 24 hours later, on Ms. Leaverton’s birthday. “It was the middle of June in 2018. I asked her to an outdoor concert where we drank red wine, had deep conversations, lots of laughter, and a divine connection. I knew that night she was my person,” Ms. Houk said.
In that moment, though their original wedding plans had to be canceled, their hopes were far from dashed. They knew it would happen. Soon.In that moment, though their original wedding plans had to be canceled, their hopes were far from dashed. They knew it would happen. Soon.
Ms. Leaverton says she knew as well. “In this one profound moment, she was talking about something that made her light up, and I just simply could not take my eyes off her,” she said. “I remember having the thought I have had every day since, ‘I’m going to marry this woman.’”Ms. Leaverton says she knew as well. “In this one profound moment, she was talking about something that made her light up, and I just simply could not take my eyes off her,” she said. “I remember having the thought I have had every day since, ‘I’m going to marry this woman.’”
The two say they found in one another the kind of magic that some say only exists in movies. But for Ms. Leaverton and Ms. Houk, it could not have felt any more real, and in fact, their love would end up making an appearance on the big screen.The two say they found in one another the kind of magic that some say only exists in movies. But for Ms. Leaverton and Ms. Houk, it could not have felt any more real, and in fact, their love would end up making an appearance on the big screen.
Not waiting to miss a moment of magic, both women wanted to propose and be proposed to. And 13 months after meeting, Ms. Houk proposed during the 2019 Austin Pride Parade, celebrating with friends, family and colleagues who joined them on a nearby rooftop bar.Not waiting to miss a moment of magic, both women wanted to propose and be proposed to. And 13 months after meeting, Ms. Houk proposed during the 2019 Austin Pride Parade, celebrating with friends, family and colleagues who joined them on a nearby rooftop bar.
Ms. Houk had revealed two details that would prove vital when it came for Ms. Leaverton to propose: She wanted to attend the Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta and ride in a hot-air balloon. “I also knew that one of Bri’s favorite experiences is a beautiful sunrise,” Ms. Leaverton said. After a year of planning, they flew to New Mexico for the festival and got up hours before sunrise the next day.Ms. Houk had revealed two details that would prove vital when it came for Ms. Leaverton to propose: She wanted to attend the Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta and ride in a hot-air balloon. “I also knew that one of Bri’s favorite experiences is a beautiful sunrise,” Ms. Leaverton said. After a year of planning, they flew to New Mexico for the festival and got up hours before sunrise the next day.
“As we headed out to the field to get ready for takeoff, I couldn’t stop shaking and smiling,” Ms. Leaverton said. “Then it all went to hell in a hot-air balloon basket, or so I thought.”“As we headed out to the field to get ready for takeoff, I couldn’t stop shaking and smiling,” Ms. Leaverton said. “Then it all went to hell in a hot-air balloon basket, or so I thought.”
The fog was so bad that all flights were grounded. “So, as we climbed out of the basket, I grabbed her hand, gave her a handwritten note that I thought she’d be reading in the air, got down on one knee, and asked her to marry me.”The fog was so bad that all flights were grounded. “So, as we climbed out of the basket, I grabbed her hand, gave her a handwritten note that I thought she’d be reading in the air, got down on one knee, and asked her to marry me.”
The couple planned a small but elegant wedding for April 10 at the Hotel Ella in Austin, Texas.The couple planned a small but elegant wedding for April 10 at the Hotel Ella in Austin, Texas.
But then everything changed. “We kept hearing more and more about this epidemic that was slowly but fiercely making its way across various parts of the world,” Ms. Leaverton said.But then everything changed. “We kept hearing more and more about this epidemic that was slowly but fiercely making its way across various parts of the world,” Ms. Leaverton said.
Reality began to sink in when the city issued a shelter-in-place order on March 24; it was to be in place until at least April 13.Reality began to sink in when the city issued a shelter-in-place order on March 24; it was to be in place until at least April 13.
“April 10, 2020 would not, in fact, be our day,” Ms. Leaverton said.“April 10, 2020 would not, in fact, be our day,” Ms. Leaverton said.
Then about two weeks later the couple learned that Ms. Leaverton’s father, Mark Leaverton, had tested positive for Covid-19. Mr. Leaverton, 70, was still recovering from emergency bypass surgery six months before, creating even more concern for his well-being and an urgency to have their wedding sooner rather than later.Then about two weeks later the couple learned that Ms. Leaverton’s father, Mark Leaverton, had tested positive for Covid-19. Mr. Leaverton, 70, was still recovering from emergency bypass surgery six months before, creating even more concern for his well-being and an urgency to have their wedding sooner rather than later.
Cassie Crudo, their wedding planner and the owner of Bride’s Best Friend, came to their rescue, suggesting they marry at Doc’s Drive-In Theater, just outside Austin, in the city of Buda. They instantly fell in love with the idea. Everyone would remain in their cars, food would be served to each car, and the ceremony would be projected onto the big screens.Cassie Crudo, their wedding planner and the owner of Bride’s Best Friend, came to their rescue, suggesting they marry at Doc’s Drive-In Theater, just outside Austin, in the city of Buda. They instantly fell in love with the idea. Everyone would remain in their cars, food would be served to each car, and the ceremony would be projected onto the big screens.
When Ms. Leaverton told her parents about their new wedding plans, it certainly was far from what they expected. Of course, when she came out to them — or rather was outed to them many years earlier — it wasn’t what they had expected, either. “I have learned that Plan A is totally overrated,” Ms. Leaverton said. “Usually the magic happens somewhere between Plans B and C, all the way to Plan Z.”When Ms. Leaverton told her parents about their new wedding plans, it certainly was far from what they expected. Of course, when she came out to them — or rather was outed to them many years earlier — it wasn’t what they had expected, either. “I have learned that Plan A is totally overrated,” Ms. Leaverton said. “Usually the magic happens somewhere between Plans B and C, all the way to Plan Z.”
This has been a theme in Ms. Leaverton’s life. She once had a rising career as a Christian singer, until she was outed by a woman who had a vendetta, Ms. Leaverton said, and suddenly everything she called solid ground was gone. She lost friends, her church, her tour and her label.This has been a theme in Ms. Leaverton’s life. She once had a rising career as a Christian singer, until she was outed by a woman who had a vendetta, Ms. Leaverton said, and suddenly everything she called solid ground was gone. She lost friends, her church, her tour and her label.
There was no Plan B. “I started waiting tables at Pappadeaux Seafood Kitchen, cleaning up bread crumbs off the floor for less than minimum wage and just tried to be the best damn little waitress I could.”There was no Plan B. “I started waiting tables at Pappadeaux Seafood Kitchen, cleaning up bread crumbs off the floor for less than minimum wage and just tried to be the best damn little waitress I could.”
Then, as luck would have it, everything changed for her on New Year’s Day 2010 when, Ms. Leaverton explains, “A bigwig senior V.P. from Wells Fargo sat in my section and she proceeded to recruit me to come work for her. I remember getting a suit from Stein Mart and leaving the tags on, because I didn’t think I would get the job.”Then, as luck would have it, everything changed for her on New Year’s Day 2010 when, Ms. Leaverton explains, “A bigwig senior V.P. from Wells Fargo sat in my section and she proceeded to recruit me to come work for her. I remember getting a suit from Stein Mart and leaving the tags on, because I didn’t think I would get the job.”
But Ms. Leaverton, who graduated from Texas A&M, did get the job. “I went into banking and kind of worked my way up,” she said. “For almost a year now, I’ve been lucky enough to serve as the director of wealth management services for an investment firm in downtown Austin, and I love it.”But Ms. Leaverton, who graduated from Texas A&M, did get the job. “I went into banking and kind of worked my way up,” she said. “For almost a year now, I’ve been lucky enough to serve as the director of wealth management services for an investment firm in downtown Austin, and I love it.”
Ms. Houk is also no stranger to life’s often blatant disinterest in the plans we make. Born in Oklahoma and raised in Louisiana, her upbringing was far from an easy one. “I am lucky to be where I’m at today,” she said. “I wasn’t necessarily going down the right road and I could have ended up in a completely different place.”Ms. Houk is also no stranger to life’s often blatant disinterest in the plans we make. Born in Oklahoma and raised in Louisiana, her upbringing was far from an easy one. “I am lucky to be where I’m at today,” she said. “I wasn’t necessarily going down the right road and I could have ended up in a completely different place.”
Her father was absent. “We lived in a shelter home at one point while my mom was trying to get on her feet.” Her family later lived in Section 8 housing relying on food stamps.Her father was absent. “We lived in a shelter home at one point while my mom was trying to get on her feet.” Her family later lived in Section 8 housing relying on food stamps.
Ms. Houk is grateful to have left that past far behind her. She is now a surgical dental assistant at Jovan Prosthodontics in Austin, although because of Covid-19, she was recently furloughed.Ms. Houk is grateful to have left that past far behind her. She is now a surgical dental assistant at Jovan Prosthodontics in Austin, although because of Covid-19, she was recently furloughed.
Staying home did allow her time to plan their new wedding — a good thing since they only had 17 days to do it.Staying home did allow her time to plan their new wedding — a good thing since they only had 17 days to do it.
On April 28, in a dusty parking lot at Doc’s Drive-In Theatre, more than 80 cars, many festively decorated at the brides’ behest, arrived at dusk filled with pajama-wearing guests, another request from the brides. A small stage was set up and festooned with balloons and a simple backdrop hung behind it. The wedding was shown on two giant movie screens flanking the stage. It was also streamed live on YouTube, Facebook and Instagram Live for friends, family, and curious strangers to watch.On April 28, in a dusty parking lot at Doc’s Drive-In Theatre, more than 80 cars, many festively decorated at the brides’ behest, arrived at dusk filled with pajama-wearing guests, another request from the brides. A small stage was set up and festooned with balloons and a simple backdrop hung behind it. The wedding was shown on two giant movie screens flanking the stage. It was also streamed live on YouTube, Facebook and Instagram Live for friends, family, and curious strangers to watch.
Just before the ceremony, Ms. Leaverton approached her parents’ car, keeping a safe six feet away. Suddenly she was overcome by tears. “I want to hug you so badly,” she said through the window.Just before the ceremony, Ms. Leaverton approached her parents’ car, keeping a safe six feet away. Suddenly she was overcome by tears. “I want to hug you so badly,” she said through the window.
Ms. Leaverton’s father was unable to walk her down the aisle. Instead, her 7-year-old twin daughters from a previous marriage, Annabelle and Olivia, did as an instrumental version of “Hallelujah” played.Ms. Leaverton’s father was unable to walk her down the aisle. Instead, her 7-year-old twin daughters from a previous marriage, Annabelle and Olivia, did as an instrumental version of “Hallelujah” played.
Ms. Houk planned to have her son, 4-year-old Atlas, walk her down the aisle as well. But he was unable to attend as she shares custody with his father and the wedding fell on one of his nights. Instead, her younger sister, Shaye Stephenson, walked with her as their mother, LaDonna Houk watched.Ms. Houk planned to have her son, 4-year-old Atlas, walk her down the aisle as well. But he was unable to attend as she shares custody with his father and the wedding fell on one of his nights. Instead, her younger sister, Shaye Stephenson, walked with her as their mother, LaDonna Houk watched.
Jen Hatmaker, an author and a longtime friend and mentor to Ms. Leaverton, led the ceremony.Jen Hatmaker, an author and a longtime friend and mentor to Ms. Leaverton, led the ceremony.
“Today is a celebration of love,” said Ms. Hatmaker, who is ordained through Christian Global Outreach Ministries. “It’s the great unifier — our one universal truth. No matter who we are, where we’ve come from, what we believe, we know this one thing: Love is what we’re doing right.”“Today is a celebration of love,” said Ms. Hatmaker, who is ordained through Christian Global Outreach Ministries. “It’s the great unifier — our one universal truth. No matter who we are, where we’ve come from, what we believe, we know this one thing: Love is what we’re doing right.”
Updated May 28, 2020 Updated June 1, 2020
Exercise researchers and physicians have some blunt advice for those of us aiming to return to regular exercise now: Start slowly and then rev up your workouts, also slowly. American adults tended to be about 12 percent less active after the stay-at-home mandates began in March than they were in January. But there are steps you can take to ease your way back into regular exercise safely. First, “start at no more than 50 percent of the exercise you were doing before Covid,” says Dr. Monica Rho, the chief of musculoskeletal medicine at the Shirley Ryan AbilityLab in Chicago. Thread in some preparatory squats, too, she advises. “When you haven’t been exercising, you lose muscle mass.” Expect some muscle twinges after these preliminary, post-lockdown sessions, especially a day or two later. But sudden or increasing pain during exercise is a clarion call to stop and return home.
States are reopening bit by bit. This means that more public spaces are available for use and more and more businesses are being allowed to open again. The federal government is largely leaving the decision up to states, and some state leaders are leaving the decision up to local authorities. Even if you aren’t being told to stay at home, it’s still a good idea to limit trips outside and your interaction with other people.States are reopening bit by bit. This means that more public spaces are available for use and more and more businesses are being allowed to open again. The federal government is largely leaving the decision up to states, and some state leaders are leaving the decision up to local authorities. Even if you aren’t being told to stay at home, it’s still a good idea to limit trips outside and your interaction with other people.
Touching contaminated objects and then infecting ourselves with the germs is not typically how the virus spreads. But it can happen. A number of studies of flu, rhinovirus, coronavirus and other microbes have shown that respiratory illnesses, including the new coronavirus, can spread by touching contaminated surfaces, particularly in places like day care centers, offices and hospitals. But a long chain of events has to happen for the disease to spread that way. The best way to protect yourself from coronavirus — whether it’s surface transmission or close human contact — is still social distancing, washing your hands, not touching your face and wearing masks.Touching contaminated objects and then infecting ourselves with the germs is not typically how the virus spreads. But it can happen. A number of studies of flu, rhinovirus, coronavirus and other microbes have shown that respiratory illnesses, including the new coronavirus, can spread by touching contaminated surfaces, particularly in places like day care centers, offices and hospitals. But a long chain of events has to happen for the disease to spread that way. The best way to protect yourself from coronavirus — whether it’s surface transmission or close human contact — is still social distancing, washing your hands, not touching your face and wearing masks.
Common symptoms include fever, a dry cough, fatigue and difficulty breathing or shortness of breath. Some of these symptoms overlap with those of the flu, making detection difficult, but runny noses and stuffy sinuses are less common. The C.D.C. has also added chills, muscle pain, sore throat, headache and a new loss of the sense of taste or smell as symptoms to look out for. Most people fall ill five to seven days after exposure, but symptoms may appear in as few as two days or as many as 14 days.Common symptoms include fever, a dry cough, fatigue and difficulty breathing or shortness of breath. Some of these symptoms overlap with those of the flu, making detection difficult, but runny noses and stuffy sinuses are less common. The C.D.C. has also added chills, muscle pain, sore throat, headache and a new loss of the sense of taste or smell as symptoms to look out for. Most people fall ill five to seven days after exposure, but symptoms may appear in as few as two days or as many as 14 days.
If air travel is unavoidable, there are some steps you can take to protect yourself. Most important: Wash your hands often, and stop touching your face. If possible, choose a window seat. A study from Emory University found that during flu season, the safest place to sit on a plane is by a window, as people sitting in window seats had less contact with potentially sick people. Disinfect hard surfaces. When you get to your seat and your hands are clean, use disinfecting wipes to clean the hard surfaces at your seat like the head and arm rest, the seatbelt buckle, the remote, screen, seat back pocket and the tray table. If the seat is hard and nonporous or leather or pleather, you can wipe that down, too. (Using wipes on upholstered seats could lead to a wet seat and spreading of germs rather than killing them.)If air travel is unavoidable, there are some steps you can take to protect yourself. Most important: Wash your hands often, and stop touching your face. If possible, choose a window seat. A study from Emory University found that during flu season, the safest place to sit on a plane is by a window, as people sitting in window seats had less contact with potentially sick people. Disinfect hard surfaces. When you get to your seat and your hands are clean, use disinfecting wipes to clean the hard surfaces at your seat like the head and arm rest, the seatbelt buckle, the remote, screen, seat back pocket and the tray table. If the seat is hard and nonporous or leather or pleather, you can wipe that down, too. (Using wipes on upholstered seats could lead to a wet seat and spreading of germs rather than killing them.)
More than 40 million people — the equivalent of 1 in 4 U.S. workers — have filed for unemployment benefits since the pandemic took hold. One in five who were working in February reported losing a job or being furloughed in March or the beginning of April, data from a Federal Reserve survey released on May 14 showed, and that pain was highly concentrated among low earners. Fully 39 percent of former workers living in a household earning $40,000 or less lost work, compared with 13 percent in those making more than $100,000, a Fed official said.More than 40 million people — the equivalent of 1 in 4 U.S. workers — have filed for unemployment benefits since the pandemic took hold. One in five who were working in February reported losing a job or being furloughed in March or the beginning of April, data from a Federal Reserve survey released on May 14 showed, and that pain was highly concentrated among low earners. Fully 39 percent of former workers living in a household earning $40,000 or less lost work, compared with 13 percent in those making more than $100,000, a Fed official said.
There is an uptick in people reporting symptoms of chilblains, which are painful red or purple lesions that typically appear in the winter on fingers or toes. The lesions are emerging as yet another symptom of infection with the new coronavirus. Chilblains are caused by inflammation in small blood vessels in reaction to cold or damp conditions, but they are usually common in the coldest winter months. Federal health officials do not include toe lesions in the list of coronavirus symptoms, but some dermatologists are pushing for a change, saying so-called Covid toe should be sufficient grounds for testing.
Yes, but make sure you keep six feet of distance between you and people who don’t live in your home. Even if you just hang out in a park, rather than go for a jog or a walk, getting some fresh air, and hopefully sunshine, is a good idea.Yes, but make sure you keep six feet of distance between you and people who don’t live in your home. Even if you just hang out in a park, rather than go for a jog or a walk, getting some fresh air, and hopefully sunshine, is a good idea.
Taking one’s temperature to look for signs of fever is not as easy as it sounds, as “normal” temperature numbers can vary, but generally, keep an eye out for a temperature of 100.5 degrees Fahrenheit or higher. If you don’t have a thermometer (they can be pricey these days), there are other ways to figure out if you have a fever, or are at risk of Covid-19 complications.Taking one’s temperature to look for signs of fever is not as easy as it sounds, as “normal” temperature numbers can vary, but generally, keep an eye out for a temperature of 100.5 degrees Fahrenheit or higher. If you don’t have a thermometer (they can be pricey these days), there are other ways to figure out if you have a fever, or are at risk of Covid-19 complications.
The C.D.C. has recommended that all Americans wear cloth masks if they go out in public. This is a shift in federal guidance reflecting new concerns that the coronavirus is being spread by infected people who have no symptoms. Until now, the C.D.C., like the W.H.O., has advised that ordinary people don’t need to wear masks unless they are sick and coughing. Part of the reason was to preserve medical-grade masks for health care workers who desperately need them at a time when they are in continuously short supply. Masks don’t replace hand washing and social distancing.The C.D.C. has recommended that all Americans wear cloth masks if they go out in public. This is a shift in federal guidance reflecting new concerns that the coronavirus is being spread by infected people who have no symptoms. Until now, the C.D.C., like the W.H.O., has advised that ordinary people don’t need to wear masks unless they are sick and coughing. Part of the reason was to preserve medical-grade masks for health care workers who desperately need them at a time when they are in continuously short supply. Masks don’t replace hand washing and social distancing.
If you’ve been exposed to the coronavirus or think you have, and have a fever or symptoms like a cough or difficulty breathing, call a doctor. They should give you advice on whether you should be tested, how to get tested, and how to seek medical treatment without potentially infecting or exposing others.If you’ve been exposed to the coronavirus or think you have, and have a fever or symptoms like a cough or difficulty breathing, call a doctor. They should give you advice on whether you should be tested, how to get tested, and how to seek medical treatment without potentially infecting or exposing others.
If you’re sick and you think you’ve been exposed to the new coronavirus, the C.D.C. recommends that you call your healthcare provider and explain your symptoms and fears. They will decide if you need to be tested. Keep in mind that there’s a chance — because of a lack of testing kits or because you’re asymptomatic, for instance — you won’t be able to get tested.If you’re sick and you think you’ve been exposed to the new coronavirus, the C.D.C. recommends that you call your healthcare provider and explain your symptoms and fears. They will decide if you need to be tested. Keep in mind that there’s a chance — because of a lack of testing kits or because you’re asymptomatic, for instance — you won’t be able to get tested.
Charity Navigator, which evaluates charities using a numbers-based system, has a running list of nonprofits working in communities affected by the outbreak. You can give blood through the American Red Cross, and World Central Kitchen has stepped in to distribute meals in major cities.Charity Navigator, which evaluates charities using a numbers-based system, has a running list of nonprofits working in communities affected by the outbreak. You can give blood through the American Red Cross, and World Central Kitchen has stepped in to distribute meals in major cities.
The couple exchanged vows they had written for one another and Ms. Houk even shared vows she specifically wrote for Ms. Leaverton’s daughters. “I am so proud to be your bonus mom,” she said to the girls through tears.The couple exchanged vows they had written for one another and Ms. Houk even shared vows she specifically wrote for Ms. Leaverton’s daughters. “I am so proud to be your bonus mom,” she said to the girls through tears.
As part of her vows, Ms. Leaverton played a song on her guitar that she wrote for Ms. Houk:As part of her vows, Ms. Leaverton played a song on her guitar that she wrote for Ms. Houk:
“My love, I love you always, in all ways. My love, I choose you this day and all our days.“My love, I love you always, in all ways. My love, I choose you this day and all our days.
No matter what storms may come, you’re the one. Through every season, in every moment,No matter what storms may come, you’re the one. Through every season, in every moment,
our love will find a way. In every valley, on top of mountains, our love will remain.”our love will find a way. In every valley, on top of mountains, our love will remain.”
The crowd honked their horns and hollered throughout the ceremony, much to the brides’ delight. And as the moon rose and the fireflies began their evening dance, Ms. Hatmaker pronounced, “It is my great pleasure to present to you for the first time Lindsey and Bri Leaverton.”The crowd honked their horns and hollered throughout the ceremony, much to the brides’ delight. And as the moon rose and the fireflies began their evening dance, Ms. Hatmaker pronounced, “It is my great pleasure to present to you for the first time Lindsey and Bri Leaverton.”
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There was no formal reception after the ceremony — no cake, no elegant dinner, no long, drawn-out speeches. Instead there were bags of popcorn, plastic cups of champagne and messy pulled pork sandwiches in Styrofoam containers. There were also bubbles and boots and Stetson hats and the brides donned custom-embroidered denim jackets after the nuptials. “Mrs. Leaverton” on one and “Wife of the Party” on the other.There was no formal reception after the ceremony — no cake, no elegant dinner, no long, drawn-out speeches. Instead there were bags of popcorn, plastic cups of champagne and messy pulled pork sandwiches in Styrofoam containers. There were also bubbles and boots and Stetson hats and the brides donned custom-embroidered denim jackets after the nuptials. “Mrs. Leaverton” on one and “Wife of the Party” on the other.
For this couple, it was never really about the wedding itself. “You can lose every detail — the flowers, the catering, the seating chart,” Ms. Hatmaker said after the ceremony. “It could all fall away and you’d still be left with the most beautiful parts of all. Lindsey and Bri didn’t lose a thing. It felt like a real sacred space out there in that dusty drive-in.”For this couple, it was never really about the wedding itself. “You can lose every detail — the flowers, the catering, the seating chart,” Ms. Hatmaker said after the ceremony. “It could all fall away and you’d still be left with the most beautiful parts of all. Lindsey and Bri didn’t lose a thing. It felt like a real sacred space out there in that dusty drive-in.”
June bugs, tailgates, sprawling skies, honking cars and all.June bugs, tailgates, sprawling skies, honking cars and all.
When April 28, 2020When April 28, 2020
Where Doc’s Drive-In Theater in Buda, TexasWhere Doc’s Drive-In Theater in Buda, Texas
Message From the Heart The Saturday morning after the wedding, Mr. Leaverton was lying in bed when, he said, he had a revelation. “God said to my heart, Mark you need to do a daddy-daughter dance with your daughter and with Bri, because she doesn’t have a dad. The God that I believe in is that tenderhearted and loving that he would tell me to do that. It never would have occurred to me to do that with Bri.” He said he will do just that when the couple finally has their big reception.Message From the Heart The Saturday morning after the wedding, Mr. Leaverton was lying in bed when, he said, he had a revelation. “God said to my heart, Mark you need to do a daddy-daughter dance with your daughter and with Bri, because she doesn’t have a dad. The God that I believe in is that tenderhearted and loving that he would tell me to do that. It never would have occurred to me to do that with Bri.” He said he will do just that when the couple finally has their big reception.
Answering With Love Ms. Leaverton, on one of the unexpected joys to come from the change in wedding plans: “To be able to show our kids that things happen that are outside of our control all the time. It’s not about the thing that happened it’s about how you respond.”Answering With Love Ms. Leaverton, on one of the unexpected joys to come from the change in wedding plans: “To be able to show our kids that things happen that are outside of our control all the time. It’s not about the thing that happened it’s about how you respond.”
Outdoor Wedding Perils There was a persistent June bug on Ms. Leaverton’s dress that crawled across the gown throughout the ceremony and another that landed in Ms. Houk’s hair, which Ms. Leaverton, despite loathing bugs, bravely plucked midceremony.Outdoor Wedding Perils There was a persistent June bug on Ms. Leaverton’s dress that crawled across the gown throughout the ceremony and another that landed in Ms. Houk’s hair, which Ms. Leaverton, despite loathing bugs, bravely plucked midceremony.
Surely It Was a Hit After the ceremony, the night’s second feature glowed on the big screen: “Airplane.”Surely It Was a Hit After the ceremony, the night’s second feature glowed on the big screen: “Airplane.”
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