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Big rise in male ChildLine calls | |
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A record number of boys called the children's counselling service ChildLine last year - double the amount seeking help five years ago. | A record number of boys called the children's counselling service ChildLine last year - double the amount seeking help five years ago. |
More than 58,000 boys phoned the charity in 2007/8 with problems ranging from loneliness to violent abuse. | More than 58,000 boys phoned the charity in 2007/8 with problems ranging from loneliness to violent abuse. |
Most calls to ChildLine are from girls - but during the past five years the proportion made by boys rose from one in every five to one in every three. | |
Boys are most likely to call about bullying, with 12,568 cases last year. | Boys are most likely to call about bullying, with 12,568 cases last year. |
Head of ChildLine Sue Minto said: "Desperate boys call because they feel they have no-one to turn to. | Head of ChildLine Sue Minto said: "Desperate boys call because they feel they have no-one to turn to. |
"It's heartbreaking to hear their stories of rape and violent beatings, often by their parents." | "It's heartbreaking to hear their stories of rape and violent beatings, often by their parents." |
She continued: "There's still the stigma that boys don't cry but it may be there's no longer so much pressure to be macho. | She continued: "There's still the stigma that boys don't cry but it may be there's no longer so much pressure to be macho. |
"They sometimes suffer in silence for months - by the time they call us they can be suicidal." | "They sometimes suffer in silence for months - by the time they call us they can be suicidal." |
The calls included one from a 14-year-old boy who said: "My dad hits me with a belt as punishment. | The calls included one from a 14-year-old boy who said: "My dad hits me with a belt as punishment. |
"This happens once or twice a month and leaves marks for days." | "This happens once or twice a month and leaves marks for days." |
Vivid memories | Vivid memories |
Another boy, 17, told a counsellor: "I was sexually abused by a relative when I was a child. | Another boy, 17, told a counsellor: "I was sexually abused by a relative when I was a child. |
"I have very vivid memories - I still feel angry that it ever happened." | "I have very vivid memories - I still feel angry that it ever happened." |
WHY BOYS RING CHILDLINE The most common concerns of boys calling in 2007/8: Bullying, 12,568 callsPhysical abuse, 6,403 callsFamily problems, 6,016 callsFacts of life, 5,362 callsSexual abuse, 4,780 callsSexuality, 3,510 callsLoneliness, 1,817 callsRape, 1,803 calls Rise in calls from Scots boys | WHY BOYS RING CHILDLINE The most common concerns of boys calling in 2007/8: Bullying, 12,568 callsPhysical abuse, 6,403 callsFamily problems, 6,016 callsFacts of life, 5,362 callsSexual abuse, 4,780 callsSexuality, 3,510 callsLoneliness, 1,817 callsRape, 1,803 calls Rise in calls from Scots boys |
Alex Gray, a ChildLine counsellor, said: "Sometimes you have to work hard to get boys to talk about what's really troubling them. | Alex Gray, a ChildLine counsellor, said: "Sometimes you have to work hard to get boys to talk about what's really troubling them. |
"But once they do they're surprised that someone's there listening to them." | "But once they do they're surprised that someone's there listening to them." |
ChildLine was launched in 1986 to provide youngsters with free and confidential advice. | ChildLine was launched in 1986 to provide youngsters with free and confidential advice. |
It is run by the Nation Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children (NSPCC). | It is run by the Nation Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children (NSPCC). |
Children's Minister Delyth Morgan said: "ChildLine is a vital resource for thousands of children and that is why the government is providing £30m to support the expansion of the NSPCC helpline. | Children's Minister Delyth Morgan said: "ChildLine is a vital resource for thousands of children and that is why the government is providing £30m to support the expansion of the NSPCC helpline. |
"Bullying must be stamped out and bullies must be made to understand the harm they have been doing." | "Bullying must be stamped out and bullies must be made to understand the harm they have been doing." |
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