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Daniel Knott: Mum's heartbreak at online video of son's body | Daniel Knott: Mum's heartbreak at online video of son's body |
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Daniel Knott was 39 when he took his own life | Daniel Knott was 39 when he took his own life |
Daniel Knott was 39 when he took his own life | Daniel Knott was 39 when he took his own life |
A mother who lost her son to suicide said her grief was amplified by a video of his body being shared on social media. | A mother who lost her son to suicide said her grief was amplified by a video of his body being shared on social media. |
Daniel Knott, 39, died on 27 March and days later his mother Jenny Tancock was told about the distressing video. | Daniel Knott, 39, died on 27 March and days later his mother Jenny Tancock was told about the distressing video. |
A man had filmed Daniel's body before the emergency services arrived. | |
"To go and share it online for the world to see... it's the ultimate insult, the ultimate degrading of someone I think," said Jenny. | "To go and share it online for the world to see... it's the ultimate insult, the ultimate degrading of someone I think," said Jenny. |
Jacob Morse, 22, was sentenced to six weeks in prison at Llanelli Magistrates' Court on 18 May after pleading guilty to circulating the video online. | |
Jenny has not watched the video, but said knowing that others had seen it caused her and the rest of her family huge distress. | Jenny has not watched the video, but said knowing that others had seen it caused her and the rest of her family huge distress. |
"[I felt] anger, pure anger, disbelief that somebody could be so vile as to arrive at a scene like that and actually video it," said Jenny from Betws, Carmarthenshire. | "[I felt] anger, pure anger, disbelief that somebody could be so vile as to arrive at a scene like that and actually video it," said Jenny from Betws, Carmarthenshire. |
Jenny says she and Daniel were always incredibly close | Jenny says she and Daniel were always incredibly close |
"For us what Jake Morse has done has just amplified that grief. We're dealing with something so vile when we should just be grieving for Daniel." | "For us what Jake Morse has done has just amplified that grief. We're dealing with something so vile when we should just be grieving for Daniel." |
Jenny was told a woman found Daniel's body who then called the emergency services. | Jenny was told a woman found Daniel's body who then called the emergency services. |
But Morse, who had been working nearby, came across the scene and filmed Daniel's body using his mobile phone before emergency services arrived. | But Morse, who had been working nearby, came across the scene and filmed Daniel's body using his mobile phone before emergency services arrived. |
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Jenny said coming face-to-face with Morse in court left her feeling "full of hate". | Jenny said coming face-to-face with Morse in court left her feeling "full of hate". |
"I shouldn't have been there, I was grieving... I just shook from head to toe the whole time," she said. | "I shouldn't have been there, I was grieving... I just shook from head to toe the whole time," she said. |
Despite her anger, she said she had mixed feelings about Morse's six-week custodial sentence. | Despite her anger, she said she had mixed feelings about Morse's six-week custodial sentence. |
"It hit me as a mother, it really did, he just looked like a big kid… and I was really torn as to how I felt," she said. | "It hit me as a mother, it really did, he just looked like a big kid… and I was really torn as to how I felt," she said. |
"I kept thinking 'what would Dan do?' and I don't think Dan would have wanted him to go to prison. | "I kept thinking 'what would Dan do?' and I don't think Dan would have wanted him to go to prison. |
"Six weeks isn't enough but at the same time it's a prison sentence, he's gone to prison and that tells me that our justice system is taking it seriously." | "Six weeks isn't enough but at the same time it's a prison sentence, he's gone to prison and that tells me that our justice system is taking it seriously." |
Jenny says her grief has been amplified by the actions of Jacob Morse | Jenny says her grief has been amplified by the actions of Jacob Morse |
With the court case behind her, Jenny has been left to contemplate the horror of the past eight weeks. | With the court case behind her, Jenny has been left to contemplate the horror of the past eight weeks. |
"To lose a child is the worst thing that can ever happen to you. To lose them to suicide takes it to a different level," she said. | "To lose a child is the worst thing that can ever happen to you. To lose them to suicide takes it to a different level," she said. |
She said she remembers Daniel as "an enigma, full of beans, full of life, from the day he was born just kind, caring, generous, loved by everybody." | She said she remembers Daniel as "an enigma, full of beans, full of life, from the day he was born just kind, caring, generous, loved by everybody." |
Daniel grew up to be a raver with a passion for fun, hardcore dance music and DJing. | Daniel grew up to be a raver with a passion for fun, hardcore dance music and DJing. |
But seven years ago that changed when Daniel was involved in a serious car crash which left him with a fractured skull and a broken back. He underwent an operation to have metal rods inserted to stabilise his back. | But seven years ago that changed when Daniel was involved in a serious car crash which left him with a fractured skull and a broken back. He underwent an operation to have metal rods inserted to stabilise his back. |
"He split with his girlfriend, lost his house, lost his job, lost everything really," said Jenny. | "He split with his girlfriend, lost his house, lost his job, lost everything really," said Jenny. |
"Physically he couldn't play the decks anymore, he couldn't stand for long, he'd shake from head to toe because the rods were pressing on nerves. | "Physically he couldn't play the decks anymore, he couldn't stand for long, he'd shake from head to toe because the rods were pressing on nerves. |
"It's almost as though Daniel lost the fight." | "It's almost as though Daniel lost the fight." |
She said when she saw police officers at her door she "just knew". | She said when she saw police officers at her door she "just knew". |
"I just said please don't, please don't." | "I just said please don't, please don't." |
Jenny and her family are being supported by local charity The Jac Lewis Foundation, which was set up by Jac Lewis's family after he took his own life. | Jenny and her family are being supported by local charity The Jac Lewis Foundation, which was set up by Jac Lewis's family after he took his own life. |
The charity has accompanied her to court and arranged for her to have counselling. | The charity has accompanied her to court and arranged for her to have counselling. |
She said the support had "helped us enormously". | She said the support had "helped us enormously". |
Daniel loved hardcore dance music | Daniel loved hardcore dance music |
Jenny said speaking out would be worth it if it could prevent "just one person who is tempted to take a video and share it under any kind of traumatic circumstances." | Jenny said speaking out would be worth it if it could prevent "just one person who is tempted to take a video and share it under any kind of traumatic circumstances." |
She said: "I want to raise awareness that these are human beings, they're people, they've got families, to share things on the internet for shock value or for likes is awful and I want them to know that there's consequences." | She said: "I want to raise awareness that these are human beings, they're people, they've got families, to share things on the internet for shock value or for likes is awful and I want them to know that there's consequences." |
If you have been affected by issues raised in this article you can visit the BBC Action Line pages. | If you have been affected by issues raised in this article you can visit the BBC Action Line pages. |
Related Topics | Related Topics |
Wales | Wales |
Social media | Social media |
Llanelli | Llanelli |
Suicide prevention | Suicide prevention |
Ammanford | Ammanford |
Bereavement | Bereavement |
Mental health | Mental health |
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