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Robbie Williams: Fan photo requests cause 'discomfort' | Robbie Williams: Fan photo requests cause 'discomfort' |
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Robbie Williams has spoken of the "discomfort" he feels when approached by fans for photos and autographs. | Robbie Williams has spoken of the "discomfort" he feels when approached by fans for photos and autographs. |
In a candid Instagram post, the pop star said he can "mask it well", but in reality, he feels frightened by social interaction and panics every time a stranger approaches him. | In a candid Instagram post, the pop star said he can "mask it well", but in reality, he feels frightened by social interaction and panics every time a stranger approaches him. |
The singer, 51, also revealed that he turned down multiple requests for photos on a recent flight. | |
But, in the lengthy and nuanced post, he also said that he had "gratitude" for people telling him they are fans of his, adding: "This isn't a complaint, it's context." | |
The former Take That singer said that, during the domestic flight across the US, one fan handed him a "lovely note" and then asked for a photo. | |
Williams says he then wrote a note back. | |
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"I explained I'd been up since 04:30, had two hours' sleep, and wrangled four kids through the airport. I've got bags under my eyes and I'm dealing with anxiety," he said on social media. | |
"I explained that if they came and took a photo with me, my anxiety would spike - because then the whole cabin would start wondering who I am." | "I explained that if they came and took a photo with me, my anxiety would spike - because then the whole cabin would start wondering who I am." |
He says another fan then asked for a photo, so he wrote a similar note on the back of his plane ticket. | He says another fan then asked for a photo, so he wrote a similar note on the back of his plane ticket. |
"As I was writing that one, another passenger walked up and just asked outright for a photo," he said. "I obliged." | "As I was writing that one, another passenger walked up and just asked outright for a photo," he said. "I obliged." |
Williams said he saw it as "being of service" and that, if it made someone happy, he would do his best to facilitate. | |
"Still... I think there needs to be a caveat," he added. | "Still... I think there needs to be a caveat," he added. |
Williams said there was an "unspoken law" that celebrities should be accessible 24/7, and that he should greet all strangers "like you're the mayor of the best town". | Williams said there was an "unspoken law" that celebrities should be accessible 24/7, and that he should greet all strangers "like you're the mayor of the best town". |
"But that thinking's off," he said. | "But that thinking's off," he said. |
He went on to say that he thought more than 50% of people who approached him couldn't name one of his albums. "They're fans of fame," he said. "But not necessarily of me." | |
He added that if people were actually his fans, he wanted to hear it. | |
"That means a lot. I'll make time. I've got gratitude for that," he said. | "That means a lot. I'll make time. I've got gratitude for that," he said. |
But he then asked whether there should be a limit on how many people can access celebrities in a day. | |
"Every interaction - with strangers or even people I know well - fills me with discomfort," he said. | "Every interaction - with strangers or even people I know well - fills me with discomfort," he said. |
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"I mask it well. But social interaction still frightens me," he added. "Every time a stranger approaches - and they are strangers - I panic." | |
Williams reiterated that he was not complaining about the attention his stardom brought him, writing: "I'm not moaning. This is a problem I'd rather have than not." | |
He added: "I'm not saying don't ask. You can. What I am saying is: let people be people." | |
Williams rose to fame as part of the boy band Take That in the early 1990s, before launching a successful solo career which saw him release hits such as Angels, Millennium and She's The One. | |
He had a well-documented struggle with depression and substance abuse in his 30s, and has spoken in the past about his mental health problems. | |
His rise, fall and resurgence were recently told in the biopic Better Man, in which he is portrayed by a chimpanzee. | |
Williams described the film, which does not shy away from dealing with the more difficult chapters of his life, as "the greatest hits of my trauma for the TikTok generation". | |
In the comments section under his Instagram post, people praised Williams for his openness and honesty. | |
"Everyone is entitled to their boundaries," wrote one user. | "Everyone is entitled to their boundaries," wrote one user. |
"No human is entitled access to another human, famous or not," wrote another. "I think celebrities need to start normalising saying no to fans." | "No human is entitled access to another human, famous or not," wrote another. "I think celebrities need to start normalising saying no to fans." |
If you have been affected by any of the issues raised in this story, information and support can be found at the BBC's Action Line. | If you have been affected by any of the issues raised in this story, information and support can be found at the BBC's Action Line. |