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Laura Nuttall's sister: 'There's not enough said about losing siblings' | Laura Nuttall's sister: 'There's not enough said about losing siblings' |
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Gracie Nuttall (right) said there needs to be a lot more of a conversation about sibling grief | Gracie Nuttall (right) said there needs to be a lot more of a conversation about sibling grief |
The sister of a woman who ticked an extensive list of experiences off her bucket list before she died has said there should be more conversation about sibling loss. | |
Gracie Nuttall's older sister Laura, from Barrowford in Lancashire, died aged 23 in May 2023, having suffered from an aggressive form of brain cancer for five years. | Gracie Nuttall's older sister Laura, from Barrowford in Lancashire, died aged 23 in May 2023, having suffered from an aggressive form of brain cancer for five years. |
Ms Nuttall, 23, who works with the Sibling Support Charity, said many people who had lost a brother or sister felt their grief was often overlooked. | Ms Nuttall, 23, who works with the Sibling Support Charity, said many people who had lost a brother or sister felt their grief was often overlooked. |
"There's very little dialogue about sibling loss, and that's what we are trying to change," she said. | "There's very little dialogue about sibling loss, and that's what we are trying to change," she said. |
Gracie said "it's nice" to be able to speak about a late sibling | Gracie said "it's nice" to be able to speak about a late sibling |
Gracie added: "Your sibling relationship should be the longest relationship of your life, and for a lot of people that loss is unimaginable. | Gracie added: "Your sibling relationship should be the longest relationship of your life, and for a lot of people that loss is unimaginable. |
"What do you say to someone in that situation?" | "What do you say to someone in that situation?" |
"Even my friends at school didn't know what to say. | "Even my friends at school didn't know what to say. |
"We need to open up a conversation where people can say, 'that's really rubbish you lost your sister', because that's better than saying nothing." | "We need to open up a conversation where people can say, 'that's really rubbish you lost your sister', because that's better than saying nothing." |
Laura was diagnosed with glioblastoma multiforme, the most aggressive form of brain cancer, following a routine eye test. | Laura was diagnosed with glioblastoma multiforme, the most aggressive form of brain cancer, following a routine eye test. |
She was later found to have eight tumours. | She was later found to have eight tumours. |
Despite her diagnosis and years of treatment, she went on to work her way through a bucket list. | Despite her diagnosis and years of treatment, she went on to work her way through a bucket list. |
She met Michelle Obama, commanded a Royal Navy ship, and presented the weather on BBC North West Tonight. | She met Michelle Obama, commanded a Royal Navy ship, and presented the weather on BBC North West Tonight. |
She also graduated from the University of Manchester. | She also graduated from the University of Manchester. |
Gracie said working with a charity and having a podcast gave her "the opportunity to speak about your sibling with other people who get it". | Gracie said working with a charity and having a podcast gave her "the opportunity to speak about your sibling with other people who get it". |
"I'm very lucky that I'm in a situation where I get to speak about Laura a lot, and so many people don't have that," she said. | "I'm very lucky that I'm in a situation where I get to speak about Laura a lot, and so many people don't have that," she said. |
"That person's just gone, and they can't speak about them, because nobody asks and part of what we're trying to do is say, 'ask someone about their sibling'. | "That person's just gone, and they can't speak about them, because nobody asks and part of what we're trying to do is say, 'ask someone about their sibling'. |
"You're not going to upset them, it's nice to be able to speak about them." | "You're not going to upset them, it's nice to be able to speak about them." |
Listen to the best of BBC Radio Lancashire on BBC SoundsĀ and follow BBC Lancashire on Facebook, X and Instagram and watch BBC North West Tonight on BBC iPlayer. | Listen to the best of BBC Radio Lancashire on BBC SoundsĀ and follow BBC Lancashire on Facebook, X and Instagram and watch BBC North West Tonight on BBC iPlayer. |
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