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Terminally ill Caerphilly woman renew vows after donated wedding | Terminally ill Caerphilly woman renew vows after donated wedding |
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Trasi Coghlan brought forward plans for a wedding vows renewal by a year after getting a terminal cancer diagnosis | Trasi Coghlan brought forward plans for a wedding vows renewal by a year after getting a terminal cancer diagnosis |
A terminally ill woman was left "overwhelmed" after businesses donated a venue, wedding dress and flowers for her to renew her vows. | A terminally ill woman was left "overwhelmed" after businesses donated a venue, wedding dress and flowers for her to renew her vows. |
Trasi Coghlan, 62, who has had cancer three times, was planning a vow renewal with husband Mark, 65, on their 40th wedding anniversary in 2026, but they brought the date forward after her diagnosis. | Trasi Coghlan, 62, who has had cancer three times, was planning a vow renewal with husband Mark, 65, on their 40th wedding anniversary in 2026, but they brought the date forward after her diagnosis. |
The couple's first wedding was a "sad day" as Trasi's mother died from cancer the day before. | The couple's first wedding was a "sad day" as Trasi's mother died from cancer the day before. |
An innocuous Facebook post from the Caerphilly couple's daughter led to offers to help, resulting in a ceremony on Thursday which gave their children and grandchildren "something special to remember". | An innocuous Facebook post from the Caerphilly couple's daughter led to offers to help, resulting in a ceremony on Thursday which gave their children and grandchildren "something special to remember". |
The couple's daughter posted on Facebook asking for venue ideas and "within the hour", she got a phone call from Ridgeway Golf Club. | The couple's daughter posted on Facebook asking for venue ideas and "within the hour", she got a phone call from Ridgeway Golf Club. |
This was followed by other businesses offering to donate her wedding dress, flowers and make-up, which she said was "overwhelming". | This was followed by other businesses offering to donate her wedding dress, flowers and make-up, which she said was "overwhelming". |
Trasi said there was "no end of people ringing up, offering to help and contribute. It's really blown our minds with how kind people have been". | |
"It was amazing the amount of family and friends who came. The whole thing from start to finish was perfect," she added. | |
Speaking on Radio Wales Breakfast before the wedding, Trasi said: "Our original wedding day wasn't very nice. | Speaking on Radio Wales Breakfast before the wedding, Trasi said: "Our original wedding day wasn't very nice. |
"My mum passed sadly with cancer the day before so we never really enjoyed our day." | "My mum passed sadly with cancer the day before so we never really enjoyed our day." |
She said they had "always wanted to have another wedding day" and planned to do one on their 40th anniversary. | She said they had "always wanted to have another wedding day" and planned to do one on their 40th anniversary. |
"But obviously, with the diagnosis and everything, my husband said, 'right, we'll, we'll do it now'," Trasi said. | "But obviously, with the diagnosis and everything, my husband said, 'right, we'll, we'll do it now'," Trasi said. |
Trasi and Mark said their vow renewal was happy but emotional | Trasi and Mark said their vow renewal was happy but emotional |
One of Trasi's close friends married the couple and Bells & Whistles, a wedding company, provided the photography and donated a dress. | One of Trasi's close friends married the couple and Bells & Whistles, a wedding company, provided the photography and donated a dress. |
The couple said while it was a "happy occasion", it was "very emotional because of the circumstances". | The couple said while it was a "happy occasion", it was "very emotional because of the circumstances". |
"The chemo and the treatments have been extremely tough and it's been hard for my family, watching me go through this," said Trasi. | "The chemo and the treatments have been extremely tough and it's been hard for my family, watching me go through this," said Trasi. |
"I really appreciate everything my family and all my friends are doing to support me... and keep me going on the bad days." | "I really appreciate everything my family and all my friends are doing to support me... and keep me going on the bad days." |
Trasi and Mark Coghlan had their first wedding 39 years ago | Trasi and Mark Coghlan had their first wedding 39 years ago |
She said chemotherapy and genetic treatment try to "slow the cancer down to give me more time". | She said chemotherapy and genetic treatment try to "slow the cancer down to give me more time". |
But "it absolutely knocks me for six", she said. | But "it absolutely knocks me for six", she said. |
"I can't manage a shower on my own. I struggle just to even get out of bed some mornings, it's a massive thing for me." | "I can't manage a shower on my own. I struggle just to even get out of bed some mornings, it's a massive thing for me." |
Trasi said her diagnosis has been tough for her family and friends | Trasi said her diagnosis has been tough for her family and friends |
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