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Parents' evenings all too often end with parents having no clear idea of how their children are doing at school, claims a survey.Parents' evenings all too often end with parents having no clear idea of how their children are doing at school, claims a survey.
According to a survey of 2,000 primary school parents in the UK, 55% felt parents' evenings did not really tell them how their child was progressing.According to a survey of 2,000 primary school parents in the UK, 55% felt parents' evenings did not really tell them how their child was progressing.
The study also found the average time spent with a teacher was 13 minutes.The study also found the average time spent with a teacher was 13 minutes.
Developmental psychologist Janine Spencer says parents can leave a hurried meeting feeling "bewildered".Developmental psychologist Janine Spencer says parents can leave a hurried meeting feeling "bewildered".
Dr Spencer, a lecturer at Brunel University, says that parents need to plan questions to ask before they go to a meeting with teachers, so that they make use of the time available.Dr Spencer, a lecturer at Brunel University, says that parents need to plan questions to ask before they go to a meeting with teachers, so that they make use of the time available.
Parents should also make sure they ask the teacher how they could help their child at home, she says.Parents should also make sure they ask the teacher how they could help their child at home, she says.
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The survey of parents of children aged 10 and under, carried out for the educational toy company Leapfrog, suggests a majority of parents would like to have more detailed information about their child's performance at school.The survey of parents of children aged 10 and under, carried out for the educational toy company Leapfrog, suggests a majority of parents would like to have more detailed information about their child's performance at school.
But more than three quarters arrive at parents' evenings without having made any preparations or thought about what information they want.But more than three quarters arrive at parents' evenings without having made any preparations or thought about what information they want.
The survey also claims that two thirds of parents have been unable to attend a meeting because of work commitments - and one in three fathers think that going to a parents' evening is a job for their partner.The survey also claims that two thirds of parents have been unable to attend a meeting because of work commitments - and one in three fathers think that going to a parents' evening is a job for their partner.
A majority - 57% - would rather receive an e-mail update about their child's progress and the same number would like to have more frequent informal meetings.A majority - 57% - would rather receive an e-mail update about their child's progress and the same number would like to have more frequent informal meetings.
It suggests that too often the experience of parents' evenings can be busy parents arriving for a rushed meeting in which parents are left unsure about their children's school work.It suggests that too often the experience of parents' evenings can be busy parents arriving for a rushed meeting in which parents are left unsure about their children's school work.
"Parents want to get so much from only a few minutes," she says - and the first couple of minutes can be taken up with saying hello and making small talk."Parents want to get so much from only a few minutes," she says - and the first couple of minutes can be taken up with saying hello and making small talk.
While parents want a clear overall impression of how well a child is doing, Dr Spencer says it is all too easy for the conversation to be diverted into one particular area - and when the meeting finishes, parents do not feel satisfied they have a clear view of their child's achievement.While parents want a clear overall impression of how well a child is doing, Dr Spencer says it is all too easy for the conversation to be diverted into one particular area - and when the meeting finishes, parents do not feel satisfied they have a clear view of their child's achievement.
Another problem in communicating, she suggests, can be the reluctance of teachers to risk offending parents with too much blunt bad news about their children.Another problem in communicating, she suggests, can be the reluctance of teachers to risk offending parents with too much blunt bad news about their children.

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