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Southbank festival asks: what is it like to be a modern man? | |
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Are you a man who watches internet porn, covets a classic car and worries way too much about whether you come across as, well, too blokey? A new festival could be for you. | Are you a man who watches internet porn, covets a classic car and worries way too much about whether you come across as, well, too blokey? A new festival could be for you. |
All those subjects and more will be raised at a newly announced Being a Man weekend of talks and debates at the Southbank Centre. | All those subjects and more will be raised at a newly announced Being a Man weekend of talks and debates at the Southbank Centre. |
Jude Kelly, the centre's artistic director who came up with the idea, acknowledged there would be men who would run a mile rather than debate what it is like to be a man. But she promises it does not have to be "embarrassingly touchy feely". She added: "It isn't all about unpacking your personal feelings. I think men are interested in hearing from each other, just as women are." | |
The idea sprang from the Women of the World festival that Kelly began at the Southbank Centre four years ago, which often became a forum where "men were constantly talked about – but they weren't present to talk". | |
"I've got a 23-year-old son I love, an ex-husband I love, a partner I love, a father I love. It just seemed to me lots and lots of men were searching for how do you live life as a modern man," she said. | "I've got a 23-year-old son I love, an ex-husband I love, a partner I love, a father I love. It just seemed to me lots and lots of men were searching for how do you live life as a modern man," she said. |
The full programme will be announced in the new year but so far includes Billy Bragg and Nick Hornby on the pros and cons of blokey-ness; Grayson Perry on maleness and why men need to sit down for their rights; the theatre director and writer Topher Campbell on being a gay black man; and Martin Daubney, the former editor of Loaded magazine, investigating porn and the brain. | |
Daubney said: "Is there really a 'crisis of masculinity', or have men been told it so many times we actually believe it? Can men even celebrate masculinity without being tried for misogyny?" | Daubney said: "Is there really a 'crisis of masculinity', or have men been told it so many times we actually believe it? Can men even celebrate masculinity without being tried for misogyny?" |
Other contributors include the newsreader Jon Snow. He said: "It sure is time to talk about men: men and change; men and women; and why many men fear both change and women." | |
Kelly said she had staged a series of "think ins" involving 250 men and they "all said they rarely had an opportunity to share dilemmas and hear from other men what their dilemmas were". | |
Some men perhaps feel threatened by women's march towards equality. Kelly said: "There has to be some element of men feeling they are supported and appreciated for being a man. I don't think women's equality equals men being diminished. | Some men perhaps feel threatened by women's march towards equality. Kelly said: "There has to be some element of men feeling they are supported and appreciated for being a man. I don't think women's equality equals men being diminished. |
"I just think it is a good time to allow men permission to talk about anything." | "I just think it is a good time to allow men permission to talk about anything." |
And it's not about men becoming more feminist, she said. "It is about men learning more about each others' concerns and interests and debating it." | |
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