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Is Australia losing its empathy? | Is Australia losing its empathy? |
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We’ve all done it. We walk down the street | We’ve all done it. We walk down the street |
and see a homeless guy asking for some small change and we stride straight past | and see a homeless guy asking for some small change and we stride straight past |
avoiding his eye. Or we read about children in Syria being maimed and tortured and quickly | avoiding his eye. Or we read about children in Syria being maimed and tortured and quickly |
flick over the page without a second of thought, continuing to munch on our | flick over the page without a second of thought, continuing to munch on our |
toast. | toast. |
These kinds of empathy failures are pretty | These kinds of empathy failures are pretty |
normal. Although the neuroscientists now tell us that 98% of people have the | normal. Although the neuroscientists now tell us that 98% of people have the |
ability to empathise, the reality is that we lead busy, stressful lives, and | ability to empathise, the reality is that we lead busy, stressful lives, and |
often feel we don’t have the time or energy to step into | often feel we don’t have the time or energy to step into |
other people’s shoes, look at the world from their perspective – and give them | other people’s shoes, look at the world from their perspective – and give them |
some support. In other words, we fail to bring our neural circuitry to life, so | some support. In other words, we fail to bring our neural circuitry to life, so |
our empathic potential lies dormant. | our empathic potential lies dormant. |
But something more serious is going on: | But something more serious is going on: |
Australia, the lucky country, is losing its empathy. A recent report based on a | Australia, the lucky country, is losing its empathy. A recent report based on a |
national survey by the Scanlon | national survey by the Scanlon |
Foundation highlights some powerful statistics: | Foundation highlights some powerful statistics: |
What are figures like these telling us? Without | What are figures like these telling us? Without |
anyone really noticing, communities are fracturing and social cohesion being eroded. | anyone really noticing, communities are fracturing and social cohesion being eroded. |
More and more people are caught up in a culture of hyper-individualism where | More and more people are caught up in a culture of hyper-individualism where |
the question “what’s in it for me?” dominates their minds. They are turning | the question “what’s in it for me?” dominates their minds. They are turning |
their backs on socially marginalised groups such as asylum seekers and becoming | their backs on socially marginalised groups such as asylum seekers and becoming |
less willing to trust others, or listen to the views of people whose beliefs | less willing to trust others, or listen to the views of people whose beliefs |
differ from their own – whether it’s on issues such as climate change or private | differ from their own – whether it’s on issues such as climate change or private |
schools. The big picture is clear: there’s a growing empathy deficit that is | schools. The big picture is clear: there’s a growing empathy deficit that is |
creating new levels of social division. | creating new levels of social division. |
In some ways | In some ways |
these attitudes are surprising. You might expect them in a country that is | these attitudes are surprising. You might expect them in a country that is |
suffering chronic economic recession, where people scapegoat immigrants and | suffering chronic economic recession, where people scapegoat immigrants and |
blame them for their economic woes. But Australia hardly qualifies on these | blame them for their economic woes. But Australia hardly qualifies on these |
grounds, having done better than most countries to survive the repercussions of | grounds, having done better than most countries to survive the repercussions of |
the global financial meltdown in 2008. | the global financial meltdown in 2008. |
It’s also a | It’s also a |
little strange for a nation that prides itself on its multiculturalism (of | little strange for a nation that prides itself on its multiculturalism (of |
which I am a product, with a mixed heritage including Polish, Croatian, | which I am a product, with a mixed heritage including Polish, Croatian, |
Romanian and Scottish). In fact, 84% of respondents in the Scanlon study said | Romanian and Scottish). In fact, 84% of respondents in the Scanlon study said |
they thought multiculturalism had been good for the country, and 70% believed | they thought multiculturalism had been good for the country, and 70% believed |
it benefited the nation economically. | it benefited the nation economically. |
On the other | On the other |
hand, it’s clear the prevalent political culture is hardly conducive to | hand, it’s clear the prevalent political culture is hardly conducive to |
creating empathy, even if the past decade has seen growing recognition of the | creating empathy, even if the past decade has seen growing recognition of the |
perspectives and rights of Indigenous Australians. Just think how much | perspectives and rights of Indigenous Australians. Just think how much |
stereotyping remains a staple of the contemporary political scene. Politicians | stereotyping remains a staple of the contemporary political scene. Politicians |
from across the spectrum frequently refer to asylum seekers as “illegals” – Tony Abbott’s government decreed that they should be described as such in all official correspondence – | from across the spectrum frequently refer to asylum seekers as “illegals” – Tony Abbott’s government decreed that they should be described as such in all official correspondence – |
despite the Refugee Council of Australia and the United Nations pointing out | despite the Refugee Council of Australia and the United Nations pointing out |
that it is an inaccurate term since there is nothing illegal about seeking | that it is an inaccurate term since there is nothing illegal about seeking |
asylum. | asylum. |
“If you wanted to disenfranchise refugees, | “If you wanted to disenfranchise refugees, |
and leave the public thinking they have no rights, then call them ‘illegal’ | and leave the public thinking they have no rights, then call them ‘illegal’ |
over and over again,” the former | over and over again,” the former |
Paul Keating speechwriter Don Watson told me. Politicians, he says, do | Paul Keating speechwriter Don Watson told me. Politicians, he says, do |
everything they can to “keep any kind of empathy at bay”, finding language that “dulls the instinct to ask ‘What if that were me and my children in one of | everything they can to “keep any kind of empathy at bay”, finding language that “dulls the instinct to ask ‘What if that were me and my children in one of |
those boats, or in one of those detention centres?’” Thomas | those boats, or in one of those detention centres?’” Thomas |
Keneally – author of the empathic bestseller Schindler’s Ark – has made similar remarks, commenting on the “racial hysteria” politicians have whipped up against | Keneally – author of the empathic bestseller Schindler’s Ark – has made similar remarks, commenting on the “racial hysteria” politicians have whipped up against |
asylum seekers. | asylum seekers. |
It is this | It is this |
kind of stereotyping, where we fail to see the real individuals behind the | kind of stereotyping, where we fail to see the real individuals behind the |
labels we impose on them, that is at the root of the empathy crisis. | labels we impose on them, that is at the root of the empathy crisis. |
This empathy decline | This empathy decline |
is not, however, Australia’s alone. Across the western world there is evidence | is not, however, Australia’s alone. Across the western world there is evidence |
of a growing empathy deficit. A study at the University of Michigan revealed empathy levels in the United States have dropped 48% over the past 40 | of a growing empathy deficit. A study at the University of Michigan revealed empathy levels in the United States have dropped 48% over the past 40 |
years, with the steepest fall happening over the last decade. This means that | years, with the steepest fall happening over the last decade. This means that |
fewer and fewer people are making the effort to extend their moral concern | fewer and fewer people are making the effort to extend their moral concern |
towards strangers, or to take into account the feelings and perspectives of | towards strangers, or to take into account the feelings and perspectives of |
others. In the UK, the empathy deficit is reflected in a chronic | others. In the UK, the empathy deficit is reflected in a chronic |
decline of social trust. In 1959 60% of people thought most other people could | decline of social trust. In 1959 60% of people thought most other people could |
be trusted. That figure has now halved. A creeping, self-centred individualism | be trusted. That figure has now halved. A creeping, self-centred individualism |
has become dominant in public culture. | has become dominant in public culture. |
It all | It all |
sounds a bit depressing. But there’s good news. There is a quiet revolution of | sounds a bit depressing. But there’s good news. There is a quiet revolution of |
empathic thinking and social action going on around the globe. With a little | empathic thinking and social action going on around the globe. With a little |
imagination, Australians could learn to harness the power of empathy to shift | imagination, Australians could learn to harness the power of empathy to shift |
the contours of society. So what does this empathy revolution look like? | the contours of society. So what does this empathy revolution look like? |
Intriguingly, | Intriguingly, |
empathy is a more popular concept today than at any moment in its history. It’s | empathy is a more popular concept today than at any moment in its history. It’s |
on the lips of everyone from the Dalai Lama to Barack Obama, from business gurus | on the lips of everyone from the Dalai Lama to Barack Obama, from business gurus |
to happiness experts. Internet searches for the word “empathy” have more than doubled in frequency in the past ten years. | to happiness experts. Internet searches for the word “empathy” have more than doubled in frequency in the past ten years. |
A major | A major |
reason for this surge of interest is because of extraordinary new insights into | reason for this surge of interest is because of extraordinary new insights into |
the science of empathy. For more than three centuries we’ve been fed a dangerous | the science of empathy. For more than three centuries we’ve been fed a dangerous |
piece of propaganda, which is that human beings are essentially selfish, | piece of propaganda, which is that human beings are essentially selfish, |
individualistic creatures. But the scientific consensus has shifted in the last | individualistic creatures. But the scientific consensus has shifted in the last |
decade. We are also Homo empathicus: | decade. We are also Homo empathicus: |
alongside our selfish inner drives is a more empathic, co-operative self. | alongside our selfish inner drives is a more empathic, co-operative self. |
Neuroscientists | Neuroscientists |
have discovered that almost all of us (exceptions include psychopaths) have a | have discovered that almost all of us (exceptions include psychopaths) have a |
ten-section “empathy-circuit” wired into our brains. Damage part of it and you | ten-section “empathy-circuit” wired into our brains. Damage part of it and you |
may be unable to recognise fear or other emotions on someone’s face. | may be unable to recognise fear or other emotions on someone’s face. |
Evolutionary biologists have shown this co-operative, empathic self is a | Evolutionary biologists have shown this co-operative, empathic self is a |
trait we share with our primate cousins, such as the hippie-like bonobo chimp. | trait we share with our primate cousins, such as the hippie-like bonobo chimp. |
And psychologists have demonstrated that the empathic ability to step into | And psychologists have demonstrated that the empathic ability to step into |
another’s shoes and appreciate that their viewpoint may differ from our own | another’s shoes and appreciate that their viewpoint may differ from our own |
develops in most children by the age of about two. | develops in most children by the age of about two. |
The problem | The problem |
is that we’re still not very skilled at tapping into our full empathic | is that we’re still not very skilled at tapping into our full empathic |
potential. But luckily empathy can be learned, like learning to ride a bike or | potential. But luckily empathy can be learned, like learning to ride a bike or |
drive a car. The best place to start is at school. I believe every child should | drive a car. The best place to start is at school. I believe every child should |
have the right to take part in programmes such as Roots of Empathy, the world’s most successful empathy | have the right to take part in programmes such as Roots of Empathy, the world’s most successful empathy |
teaching initiative. Having started in Canada, it has now spread to countries such | teaching initiative. Having started in Canada, it has now spread to countries such |
as New Zealand and Germany, and more than half a million children have done it. How | as New Zealand and Germany, and more than half a million children have done it. How |
does it work? The teacher is a baby. | does it work? The teacher is a baby. |
True. A class | True. A class |
of kids adopts a baby for the year, who visits every few weeks with a parent | of kids adopts a baby for the year, who visits every few weeks with a parent |
and an instructor from the programme. The children sit around the baby and | and an instructor from the programme. The children sit around the baby and |
discuss things such as: why’s the baby crying? Why is the baby laughing? What | discuss things such as: why’s the baby crying? Why is the baby laughing? What |
might she be feeling? This effort to step into the baby’s shoes is then | might she be feeling? This effort to step into the baby’s shoes is then |
extended outwards. What’s it like to be bullied in the playground, or to be | extended outwards. What’s it like to be bullied in the playground, or to be |
made fun of if you’re in a wheelchair? The results are remarkable. A study in Scotland showed the programme boosted | made fun of if you’re in a wheelchair? The results are remarkable. A study in Scotland showed the programme boosted |
co-operative behaviour in 55% of pupils, decreased bullying and increased | co-operative behaviour in 55% of pupils, decreased bullying and increased |
academic attainment. Roots of Empathy has been piloted in Western Australia. | academic attainment. Roots of Empathy has been piloted in Western Australia. |
It’s now time to roll it out across the nation’s classrooms. | It’s now time to roll it out across the nation’s classrooms. |
But we can’t | But we can’t |
wait 20 years for a new generation of empathic citizens to emerge. We also | wait 20 years for a new generation of empathic citizens to emerge. We also |
need to work on ourselves. On a personal | need to work on ourselves. On a personal |
level, try having a conversation with a stranger at least once a week. Get beyond superficial chatter and talk about the stuff that really | level, try having a conversation with a stranger at least once a week. Get beyond superficial chatter and talk about the stuff that really |
matters in life – love, family, death or politics. Conversations with strangers | matters in life – love, family, death or politics. Conversations with strangers |
are one of the best ways to overcome our prejudices and assumptions about | are one of the best ways to overcome our prejudices and assumptions about |
others, and can cure us of making snap stereotyped judgements about people | others, and can cure us of making snap stereotyped judgements about people |
based on appearance or accent. | based on appearance or accent. |
On the | On the |
political level, we need to generate these kinds of conversations on a mass | political level, we need to generate these kinds of conversations on a mass |
scale. One inspiring organisation that does this is the Parents | scale. One inspiring organisation that does this is the Parents |
Circle, which | Circle, which |
creates grassroots dialogues between Israelis and Palestinians. One of their | creates grassroots dialogues between Israelis and Palestinians. One of their |
most powerful projects was the Hello Peace phone line. Any Israeli citizen | most powerful projects was the Hello Peace phone line. Any Israeli citizen |
could call a free phone number and talk to a Palestinian stranger for up to | could call a free phone number and talk to a Palestinian stranger for up to |
half an hour, and Palestinians could similarly call Israelis. In its first five | half an hour, and Palestinians could similarly call Israelis. In its first five |
years of operation, more than a million calls were made. | years of operation, more than a million calls were made. |
Just imagine | Just imagine |
if there were similar phone lines (or online video dialogue projects) across Australia, | if there were similar phone lines (or online video dialogue projects) across Australia, |
which created conversations between climate change activists and climate change | which created conversations between climate change activists and climate change |
sceptics, between anti-immigrant advocates and new immigrants themselves, | sceptics, between anti-immigrant advocates and new immigrants themselves, |
between bombastic politicians and their constituents who feel voiceless; | between bombastic politicians and their constituents who feel voiceless; |
between rich and poor, young and old. It would be the beginning of an empathy | between rich and poor, young and old. It would be the beginning of an empathy |
revolution. Not an old-fashioned revolution of new laws or policies, but | revolution. Not an old-fashioned revolution of new laws or policies, but |
something much more radical: a revolution of human relationships. | something much more radical: a revolution of human relationships. |
Roman | Roman |
Krznaric’s new | |
book is Empathy: A Handbook for Revolution. | book is Empathy: A Handbook for Revolution. |