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Is Australia losing its empathy? Is Australia losing its empathy?
(about 4 hours later)
We’ve all done it. We walk down the streetWe’ve all done it. We walk down the street
and see a homeless guy asking for some small change and we stride straight pastand see a homeless guy asking for some small change and we stride straight past
avoiding his eye. Or we read about children in Syria being maimed and tortured and quicklyavoiding his eye. Or we read about children in Syria being maimed and tortured and quickly
flick over the page without a second of thought, continuing to munch on ourflick over the page without a second of thought, continuing to munch on our
toast.toast.
These kinds of empathy failures are prettyThese kinds of empathy failures are pretty
normal. Although the neuroscientists now tell us that 98% of people have thenormal. Although the neuroscientists now tell us that 98% of people have the
ability to empathise, the reality is that we lead busy, stressful lives, andability to empathise, the reality is that we lead busy, stressful lives, and
often feel we don’t have the time or energy to step intooften feel we don’t have the time or energy to step into
other people’s shoes, look at the world from their perspective – and give themother people’s shoes, look at the world from their perspective – and give them
some support. In other words, we fail to bring our neural circuitry to life, sosome support. In other words, we fail to bring our neural circuitry to life, so
our empathic potential lies dormant.our empathic potential lies dormant.
But something more serious is going on:But something more serious is going on:
Australia, the lucky country, is losing its empathy. A recent report based on aAustralia, the lucky country, is losing its empathy. A recent report based on a
national survey by the Scanlonnational survey by the Scanlon
Foundation highlights some powerful statistics:Foundation highlights some powerful statistics:
What are figures like these telling us? WithoutWhat are figures like these telling us? Without
anyone really noticing, communities are fracturing and social cohesion being eroded.anyone really noticing, communities are fracturing and social cohesion being eroded.
More and more people are caught up in a culture of hyper-individualism whereMore and more people are caught up in a culture of hyper-individualism where
the question “what’s in it for me?” dominates their minds. They are turningthe question “what’s in it for me?” dominates their minds. They are turning
their backs on socially marginalised groups such as asylum seekers and becomingtheir backs on socially marginalised groups such as asylum seekers and becoming
less willing to trust others, or listen to the views of people whose beliefsless willing to trust others, or listen to the views of people whose beliefs
differ from their own – whether it’s on issues such as climate change or privatediffer from their own – whether it’s on issues such as climate change or private
schools. The big picture is clear: there’s a growing empathy deficit that isschools. The big picture is clear: there’s a growing empathy deficit that is
creating new levels of social division.creating new levels of social division.
In some waysIn some ways
these attitudes are surprising. You might expect them in a country that isthese attitudes are surprising. You might expect them in a country that is
suffering chronic economic recession, where people scapegoat immigrants andsuffering chronic economic recession, where people scapegoat immigrants and
blame them for their economic woes. But Australia hardly qualifies on theseblame them for their economic woes. But Australia hardly qualifies on these
grounds, having done better than most countries to survive the repercussions ofgrounds, having done better than most countries to survive the repercussions of
the global financial meltdown in 2008.the global financial meltdown in 2008.
It’s also aIt’s also a
little strange for a nation that prides itself on its multiculturalism (oflittle strange for a nation that prides itself on its multiculturalism (of
which I am a product, with a mixed heritage including Polish, Croatian,which I am a product, with a mixed heritage including Polish, Croatian,
Romanian and Scottish). In fact, 84% of respondents in the Scanlon study saidRomanian and Scottish). In fact, 84% of respondents in the Scanlon study said
they thought multiculturalism had been good for the country, and 70% believedthey thought multiculturalism had been good for the country, and 70% believed
it benefited the nation economically.it benefited the nation economically.
On the otherOn the other
hand, it’s clear the prevalent political culture is hardly conducive tohand, it’s clear the prevalent political culture is hardly conducive to
creating empathy, even if the past decade has seen growing recognition of thecreating empathy, even if the past decade has seen growing recognition of the
perspectives and rights of Indigenous Australians. Just think how muchperspectives and rights of Indigenous Australians. Just think how much
stereotyping remains a staple of the contemporary political scene. Politiciansstereotyping remains a staple of the contemporary political scene. Politicians
from across the spectrum frequently refer to asylum seekers as “illegals” – Tony Abbott’s government decreed that they should be described as such in all official correspondence –from across the spectrum frequently refer to asylum seekers as “illegals” – Tony Abbott’s government decreed that they should be described as such in all official correspondence –
despite the Refugee Council of Australia and the United Nations pointing outdespite the Refugee Council of Australia and the United Nations pointing out
that it is an inaccurate term since there is nothing illegal about seekingthat it is an inaccurate term since there is nothing illegal about seeking
asylum.asylum.
“If you wanted to disenfranchise refugees,“If you wanted to disenfranchise refugees,
and leave the public thinking they have no rights, then call them ‘illegal’and leave the public thinking they have no rights, then call them ‘illegal’
over and over again,” the formerover and over again,” the former
Paul Keating speechwriter Don Watson told me. Politicians, he says, doPaul Keating speechwriter Don Watson told me. Politicians, he says, do
everything they can to “keep any kind of empathy at bay”, finding language that “dulls the instinct to ask ‘What if that were me and my children in one ofeverything they can to “keep any kind of empathy at bay”, finding language that “dulls the instinct to ask ‘What if that were me and my children in one of
those boats, or in one of those detention centres?’” Thomasthose boats, or in one of those detention centres?’” Thomas
Keneally – author of the empathic bestseller Schindler’s Ark – has made similar remarks, commenting on the “racial hysteria” politicians have whipped up againstKeneally – author of the empathic bestseller Schindler’s Ark – has made similar remarks, commenting on the “racial hysteria” politicians have whipped up against
asylum seekers.asylum seekers.
It is thisIt is this
kind of stereotyping, where we fail to see the real individuals behind thekind of stereotyping, where we fail to see the real individuals behind the
labels we impose on them, that is at the root of the empathy crisis.labels we impose on them, that is at the root of the empathy crisis.
This empathy declineThis empathy decline
is not, however, Australia’s alone. Across the western world there is evidenceis not, however, Australia’s alone. Across the western world there is evidence
of a growing empathy deficit. A study at the University of Michigan revealed empathy levels in the United States have dropped 48% over the past 40of a growing empathy deficit. A study at the University of Michigan revealed empathy levels in the United States have dropped 48% over the past 40
years, with the steepest fall happening over the last decade. This means thatyears, with the steepest fall happening over the last decade. This means that
fewer and fewer people are making the effort to extend their moral concernfewer and fewer people are making the effort to extend their moral concern
towards strangers, or to take into account the feelings and perspectives oftowards strangers, or to take into account the feelings and perspectives of
others. In the UK, the empathy deficit is reflected in a chronicothers. In the UK, the empathy deficit is reflected in a chronic
decline of social trust. In 1959 60% of people thought most other people coulddecline of social trust. In 1959 60% of people thought most other people could
be trusted. That figure has now halved. A creeping, self-centred individualismbe trusted. That figure has now halved. A creeping, self-centred individualism
has become dominant in public culture.has become dominant in public culture.
It allIt all
sounds a bit depressing. But there’s good news. There is a quiet revolution ofsounds a bit depressing. But there’s good news. There is a quiet revolution of
empathic thinking and social action going on around the globe. With a littleempathic thinking and social action going on around the globe. With a little
imagination, Australians could learn to harness the power of empathy to shiftimagination, Australians could learn to harness the power of empathy to shift
the contours of society. So what does this empathy revolution look like?the contours of society. So what does this empathy revolution look like?
Intriguingly,Intriguingly,
empathy is a more popular concept today than at any moment in its history. It’sempathy is a more popular concept today than at any moment in its history. It’s
on the lips of everyone from the Dalai Lama to Barack Obama, from business guruson the lips of everyone from the Dalai Lama to Barack Obama, from business gurus
to happiness experts. Internet searches for the word “empathy” have more than doubled in frequency in the past ten years.to happiness experts. Internet searches for the word “empathy” have more than doubled in frequency in the past ten years.
A majorA major
reason for this surge of interest is because of extraordinary new insights intoreason for this surge of interest is because of extraordinary new insights into
the science of empathy. For more than three centuries we’ve been fed a dangerousthe science of empathy. For more than three centuries we’ve been fed a dangerous
piece of propaganda, which is that human beings are essentially selfish,piece of propaganda, which is that human beings are essentially selfish,
individualistic creatures. But the scientific consensus has shifted in the lastindividualistic creatures. But the scientific consensus has shifted in the last
decade. We are also Homo empathicus:decade. We are also Homo empathicus:
alongside our selfish inner drives is a more empathic, co-operative self.alongside our selfish inner drives is a more empathic, co-operative self.
NeuroscientistsNeuroscientists
have discovered that almost all of us (exceptions include psychopaths) have ahave discovered that almost all of us (exceptions include psychopaths) have a
ten-section “empathy-circuit” wired into our brains. Damage part of it and youten-section “empathy-circuit” wired into our brains. Damage part of it and you
may be unable to recognise fear or other emotions on someone’s face.may be unable to recognise fear or other emotions on someone’s face.
Evolutionary biologists have shown this co-operative, empathic self is aEvolutionary biologists have shown this co-operative, empathic self is a
trait we share with our primate cousins, such as the hippie-like bonobo chimp.trait we share with our primate cousins, such as the hippie-like bonobo chimp.
And psychologists have demonstrated that the empathic ability to step intoAnd psychologists have demonstrated that the empathic ability to step into
another’s shoes and appreciate that their viewpoint may differ from our ownanother’s shoes and appreciate that their viewpoint may differ from our own
develops in most children by the age of about two.develops in most children by the age of about two.
The problemThe problem
is that we’re still not very skilled at tapping into our full empathicis that we’re still not very skilled at tapping into our full empathic
potential. But luckily empathy can be learned, like learning to ride a bike orpotential. But luckily empathy can be learned, like learning to ride a bike or
drive a car. The best place to start is at school. I believe every child shoulddrive a car. The best place to start is at school. I believe every child should
have the right to take part in programmes such as Roots of Empathy, the world’s most successful empathyhave the right to take part in programmes such as Roots of Empathy, the world’s most successful empathy
teaching initiative. Having started in Canada, it has now spread to countries suchteaching initiative. Having started in Canada, it has now spread to countries such
as New Zealand and Germany, and more than half a million children have done it. Howas New Zealand and Germany, and more than half a million children have done it. How
does it work? The teacher is a baby.does it work? The teacher is a baby.
True. A classTrue. A class
of kids adopts a baby for the year, who visits every few weeks with a parentof kids adopts a baby for the year, who visits every few weeks with a parent
and an instructor from the programme. The children sit around the baby andand an instructor from the programme. The children sit around the baby and
discuss things such as: why’s the baby crying? Why is the baby laughing? Whatdiscuss things such as: why’s the baby crying? Why is the baby laughing? What
might she be feeling? This effort to step into the baby’s shoes is thenmight she be feeling? This effort to step into the baby’s shoes is then
extended outwards. What’s it like to be bullied in the playground, or to beextended outwards. What’s it like to be bullied in the playground, or to be
made fun of if you’re in a wheelchair? The results are remarkable. A study in Scotland showed the programme boostedmade fun of if you’re in a wheelchair? The results are remarkable. A study in Scotland showed the programme boosted
co-operative behaviour in 55% of pupils, decreased bullying and increasedco-operative behaviour in 55% of pupils, decreased bullying and increased
academic attainment. Roots of Empathy has been piloted in Western Australia.academic attainment. Roots of Empathy has been piloted in Western Australia.
It’s now time to roll it out across the nation’s classrooms.It’s now time to roll it out across the nation’s classrooms.
But we can’tBut we can’t
wait 20 years for a new generation of empathic citizens to emerge. We alsowait 20 years for a new generation of empathic citizens to emerge. We also
need to work on ourselves. On a personalneed to work on ourselves. On a personal
level, try having a conversation with a stranger at least once a week. Get beyond superficial chatter and talk about the stuff that reallylevel, try having a conversation with a stranger at least once a week. Get beyond superficial chatter and talk about the stuff that really
matters in life – love, family, death or politics. Conversations with strangersmatters in life – love, family, death or politics. Conversations with strangers
are one of the best ways to overcome our prejudices and assumptions aboutare one of the best ways to overcome our prejudices and assumptions about
others, and can cure us of making snap stereotyped judgements about peopleothers, and can cure us of making snap stereotyped judgements about people
based on appearance or accent.based on appearance or accent.
On theOn the
political level, we need to generate these kinds of conversations on a masspolitical level, we need to generate these kinds of conversations on a mass
scale. One inspiring organisation that does this is the Parentsscale. One inspiring organisation that does this is the Parents
Circle, whichCircle, which
creates grassroots dialogues between Israelis and Palestinians. One of theircreates grassroots dialogues between Israelis and Palestinians. One of their
most powerful projects was the Hello Peace phone line. Any Israeli citizenmost powerful projects was the Hello Peace phone line. Any Israeli citizen
could call a free phone number and talk to a Palestinian stranger for up tocould call a free phone number and talk to a Palestinian stranger for up to
half an hour, and Palestinians could similarly call Israelis. In its first fivehalf an hour, and Palestinians could similarly call Israelis. In its first five
years of operation, more than a million calls were made.years of operation, more than a million calls were made.
Just imagineJust imagine
if there were similar phone lines (or online video dialogue projects) across Australia,if there were similar phone lines (or online video dialogue projects) across Australia,
which created conversations between climate change activists and climate changewhich created conversations between climate change activists and climate change
sceptics, between anti-immigrant advocates and new immigrants themselves,sceptics, between anti-immigrant advocates and new immigrants themselves,
between bombastic politicians and their constituents who feel voiceless;between bombastic politicians and their constituents who feel voiceless;
between rich and poor, young and old. It would be the beginning of an empathybetween rich and poor, young and old. It would be the beginning of an empathy
revolution. Not an old-fashioned revolution of new laws or policies, butrevolution. Not an old-fashioned revolution of new laws or policies, but
something much more radical: a revolution of human relationships.something much more radical: a revolution of human relationships.
RomanRoman
Krznaric’s his new Krznaric’s new
book is Empathy: A Handbook for Revolution.book is Empathy: A Handbook for Revolution.