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It was the headline that made lazy teens worldwide shudder: Spain is to introduce a law forcing children to do chores.It was the headline that made lazy teens worldwide shudder: Spain is to introduce a law forcing children to do chores.
Now, Now, if you're thinking it seems more than a little heavy-handed to legally codify the responsibilities of under-18s in private households, then I agree, but check your liberal sensibilities for just a moment. There's a surprisingly progressive detail in the Rights and Duties of Children Bill that's worth noting: the "co-responsibility in caring for the home and performing household tasks" shall be carried out "regardless of... gender".
if you're thinking it seems more than a little heavy-handed to legally Hurrah! Reading the sex equality provision for these put-upon kids made me cheer, because its opposite has such dire consequences: gender inequality in childhood leads to stultified, ill-equipped adults.
codify the responsibilities of under-18s in private households, then I Its effects have certainly been noticeable to me. While my own household was fairly progressive, many of my friends, both male and female, were inculcated with gender stereotypes inside their homes from a young age.
agree, but check your liberal sensibilities for just a moment. There's a surprisingly progressive I can remember the visceral, fist-clenching resentment I felt whenever I alone was asked to cook and lay the table, while a young male friend was allowed to continue watching telly, or, at a push, was asked to zoom around the garden with a mower or wield a drill.
detail in the Rights and Duties of Children Bill that's worth noting: The "male" tasks always seemed so much more fun. More sporadic too: John might be asked to fill up the log basket by the fire once a week, but Jane was expected in the kitchen every evening.
the "co-responsibility in caring for the home and performing household Most importantly, the division of these seemingly trivial tasks forces an inchoate awareness of invidious normative gender stereotypes on children from a dangerously impressionable age.
tasks" shall be carried out "regardless of... gender". After discovering feminist theory in my early teens, my resentment about the household competence and domestic serenity expected of me and my female friends grew. In the spirit of equality, I spared a thought for male friends who might have loved specific "female" hobbies such as baking or sewing, but the majority of chores are, by their nature, dull and unenviable.
Hurrah! Reading the sex equality provision for these put-upon kids made me I never had a problem helping out. I didn't mind washing up or cleaning; what grated immensely was the overwhelming sense conveyed by many adults that this was "women's work" and inappropriate for young men. Of course boys had their own realm of obligations, the thinking went; they could help out with DIY occasionally or heavy lifting now and then, but not... vacuuming.
cheer, because its opposite has such dire consequences: gender Well, the risk is that those boys turn into entitled men, wholly without self-sufficiency in domestic matters. And those girls either get angry and rebel, or else become cossetted women, unable or unwilling to change a lightbulb and perhaps constrained within domestic horizons in their longterm ambitions.
inequality in childhood leads to stultified, ill-equipped adults. I'm not having a swipe at housewives or stay-at-home mothers who choose a domestic-orientated life, not at all. It's simply that if we want a society of well-adjusted, self-sufficient adults, we must make sure we equip children for all facets of life and give them an element of choice in their future lives. And to do that, we must ensure that male and female children share equal obligations.
Its Legalistic Spain has clearly come to the same conclusion too. It expects equality of its adults, having enshrined legal sanctions against married men who refuse to do housework in 2005, but this latest law for children suggests that the nation now realises equality can't just be enforced after marriage, it needs to begin in childhood.
effects have certainly been noticeable to me. While my own household
was fairly progressive, many of my friends, both male and female, were
inculcated with gender stereotypes inside their homes from a young age.
I can remember the visceral,
fist-clenching resentment I felt whenever I alone was asked to cook and
lay the table, while a young male friend was allowed to continue
watching telly, or, at a push, was asked to zoom around the garden with
a mower or wield a drill.
The "male" tasks always seemed so much
more fun. More sporadic too: John might be asked to fill up the log
basket by the fire once a week, but Jane was expected in the kitchen
every evening.
Most importantly, the division of these seemingly
trivial tasks forces an inchoate awareness of invidious normative gender
stereotypes on children from a dangerously impressionable age.
After discovering feminist theory in my early teens, my resentment
about the household competence and domestic serenity expected of me and
my female friends grew. In the spirit of
equality, I spared a thought for male friends who might have loved
specific "female" hobbies such as baking or sewing, but the majority of
chores are, by their nature, dull and unenviable.
I never had a problem helping out. I didn't mind
washing up or cleaning; what grated immensely was the overwhelming sense
conveyed by many adults that this was "women's work" and inappropriate
for young men. Of course boys had their own realm of obligations,
the thinking went; they could help out with DIY occasionally or heavy
lifting now and then, but not... vacuuming.
Well,
the risk is that those boys turn into entitled men, wholly without
self-sufficiency in domestic matters. And those girls either get angry
and rebel, or else become cossetted women, unable or unwilling to change
a lightbulb and perhaps constrained within domestic horizons in their
longterm ambitions.
I'm not having a swipe at housewives or stay-at-home
mothers who choose a domestic-orientated life, not at all. It's simply
that if we want a society of well-adjusted, self-sufficient adults, we
must make sure we equip children for all facets of life and give them an
element of choice in their future lives. And to do that, we must ensure
that male and female children share equal obligations.
Legalistic Spain has clearly come to the same
conclusion too. It expects equality of its adults, having enshrined
legal sanctions against married men who refuse to do housework in 2005,
but this latest law for children suggests that the nation now realises
equality can't just be enforced after marriage, it needs to begin in
childhood.