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New EU migrants have not had a significant impact on the employment prospects of British school-leavers, according to an official government report by immigration experts. But according to poll by the Guardian and ICM published in June, almost half of British voters believe that the impact of immigration on employment underlies their sense of economic insecurity. The latest NatCen British Social Attitudes survey also shows that a quarter of British people said that they believed the main reason immigrants came to the UK was to claim benefits.New EU migrants have not had a significant impact on the employment prospects of British school-leavers, according to an official government report by immigration experts. But according to poll by the Guardian and ICM published in June, almost half of British voters believe that the impact of immigration on employment underlies their sense of economic insecurity. The latest NatCen British Social Attitudes survey also shows that a quarter of British people said that they believed the main reason immigrants came to the UK was to claim benefits.
Approximately 7.5 million people in the UK were born abroad, making up 13% of the overall population. We asked readers to tell us about their experiences of immigration and many responded in detail. Here, readers - from Romania to Canada - tell us why they came to the UK, about the challenges of gaining legal status and which aspects of British society make them want to stay or leave.Approximately 7.5 million people in the UK were born abroad, making up 13% of the overall population. We asked readers to tell us about their experiences of immigration and many responded in detail. Here, readers - from Romania to Canada - tell us why they came to the UK, about the challenges of gaining legal status and which aspects of British society make them want to stay or leave.
"I have had the most incredible journey of escape""I have had the most incredible journey of escape"
Nazan Fennell, 47, moved from Birmingham to Istanbul, via Paris. Anonymous, 47, moved from Istanbul to Birmingham, via Paris.
As a 17 year old in Istanbul, my life was unbearably hard. I was brutally seperated from my birth mother at the As a 17 year old in Istanbul, my life was unbearably hard. I was brutally seperated from my birth mother at the
age of 13 by my dictatorial father who went on to abuse me and my age of 13 by my dictatorial father who went on to abuse me and my
brother in every possible way. We were regularly tortured by him and threatened with death. I have had the most incredible journey of escape under this brother in every possible way. We were regularly tortured by him and threatened with death. I have had the most incredible journey of escape under this
threat.threat.
After an extremely risky process I managed to make my way to Paris. Aged 18, I was terrified. I could not speak French and had no experience of travelling After an extremely risky process I managed to make my way to Paris. Aged 18, I was terrified. I could not speak French and had no experience of travelling
alone. I felt all alone. I spent two years at the Sorbonne, found a good job and my own alone. I felt all alone. I spent two years at the Sorbonne, found a good job and my own
flat. During holidays in England I met the father of my three children. It was a huge surprise when I found out I was pregnant with my first child and I had no idea what to do. I decided to stay in London. I wanted the baby to grow up with the father and his family asflat. During holidays in England I met the father of my three children. It was a huge surprise when I found out I was pregnant with my first child and I had no idea what to do. I decided to stay in London. I wanted the baby to grow up with the father and his family as
I did not have a family myself. It feIt precious. I became very I did not have a family myself. It feIt precious. I became very
emotional and did not want to hurt the father by taking the baby away.emotional and did not want to hurt the father by taking the baby away.
We got married and went on to have three beautiful and amazing We got married and went on to have three beautiful and amazing
children. They were born here and they are British. I have not children. They were born here and they are British. I have not
put them on a Turkish passport as I still have nightmares about my father finding me and put them on a Turkish passport as I still have nightmares about my father finding me and
my children. I have been working and paying taxes for years and brought my three children up as a single mother until my youngest child Hope got killed by a my children. I have been working and paying taxes for years and brought my three children up as a single mother until my youngest child Hope got killed by a
18 ton heavy goods vehicle on her way back from school.18 ton heavy goods vehicle on her way back from school.
I did I did
not come here for money or benefits; safety and freedom were my main concerns. Inot come here for money or benefits; safety and freedom were my main concerns. I
am forever grateful that I have had the opportunity to become a free am forever grateful that I have had the opportunity to become a free
citizen who is entitled to a normal life. Bringing up our citizen who is entitled to a normal life. Bringing up our
children in a free country is priceless. children in a free country is priceless.
"The most difficult thing about Britain has been the sexism""The most difficult thing about Britain has been the sexism"
Gillian, 35, moved from Quebec, Canada to SurreyGillian, 35, moved from Quebec, Canada to Surrey
As a Canadian who is also black, I find myself in this funny area of the immigration Venn diagram. No one complains about Canadians, Americans, Australians or South Africans coming here and taking jobs. We are taking a heck of a lot of them - we are being head hunted, recruited and paid even more than you, but no one minds. Is it because we are normally white? I have experienced more racism than I ever did in Canada.As a Canadian who is also black, I find myself in this funny area of the immigration Venn diagram. No one complains about Canadians, Americans, Australians or South Africans coming here and taking jobs. We are taking a heck of a lot of them - we are being head hunted, recruited and paid even more than you, but no one minds. Is it because we are normally white? I have experienced more racism than I ever did in Canada.
People are always nice to me when they hear my accent. I can't help feel that my Canadian upbringing is welcome but my brown skin is not. I have been called a "paki" and had guys making monkey noises at me. But I can't talk about these things with friends because they want to pretend that Britain does not have a race problem. So I basically just stopped going out.People are always nice to me when they hear my accent. I can't help feel that my Canadian upbringing is welcome but my brown skin is not. I have been called a "paki" and had guys making monkey noises at me. But I can't talk about these things with friends because they want to pretend that Britain does not have a race problem. So I basically just stopped going out.
The most difficult thing about living in Britain for me has been the sexism. I was not used to sexual harassment in public places or sexual 'banter' as some sort of acceptable norm, but there are topless women in newspapers, lads mags, the pay gap, lack of promotion, discrimination against pregnant women, as well as high levels of rape and sex assaults. I feel very uncomfortable and unsafe and I am happy to be moving back to Canada soon. Quite simply, I think British men just hate women.The most difficult thing about living in Britain for me has been the sexism. I was not used to sexual harassment in public places or sexual 'banter' as some sort of acceptable norm, but there are topless women in newspapers, lads mags, the pay gap, lack of promotion, discrimination against pregnant women, as well as high levels of rape and sex assaults. I feel very uncomfortable and unsafe and I am happy to be moving back to Canada soon. Quite simply, I think British men just hate women.
"I don't have the right to choose who I love""I don't have the right to choose who I love"
Charles Brophy, 23, living in Liverpool with his Malaysian partnerCharles Brophy, 23, living in Liverpool with his Malaysian partner
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met my girlfriend at university a few years ago. She is studying for met my girlfriend at university a few years ago. She is studying for
the Bar in the hope of a career as a barrister. I hope to study for a the Bar in the hope of a career as a barrister. I hope to study for a
PhD and go intoPhD and go into
a career in research or academia. We're both more than capable of a career in research or academia. We're both more than capable of
reaching our goals and if we were reaching our goals and if we were
both British we could envisage a bright future together. Sadly this both British we could envisage a bright future together. Sadly this
isn't the case because while I'm a fully fledged British citizen my isn't the case because while I'm a fully fledged British citizen my
girlfriend girlfriend
is Malaysian.is Malaysian.
She paid an extortionate amount for a She paid an extortionate amount for a
degree which she got very little value from and is she has felt increasingly unwelcome, criminalised and imposed degree which she got very little value from and is she has felt increasingly unwelcome, criminalised and imposed
uponupon
by a dense and costly layer of bureaucracy. Yet this is someone who by a dense and costly layer of bureaucracy. Yet this is someone who
has a better command of the language than most of those who live here orhas a better command of the language than most of those who live here or
run the country, a better knowledge of its history and law, and much run the country, a better knowledge of its history and law, and much
more to contribute than most.more to contribute than most.
In previous years as a couple thereIn previous years as a couple there
would have been lots of would have been lots of
options open to us. She could have applied for a post-study work visa options open to us. She could have applied for a post-study work visa
or we couldor we could
have registered our relationship or even married to gain a have registered our relationship or even married to gain a
spousal visa. This is a cost and sacrifice we would make but we have spousal visa. This is a cost and sacrifice we would make but we have
been told that marriage alone will not keep us both together in the UK -been told that marriage alone will not keep us both together in the UK -
I must meet a £18,600 earnings threshold. The burden is on me alone, I must meet a £18,600 earnings threshold. The burden is on me alone,
but I'm unemployed in a difficult graduate job market and the funding but I'm unemployed in a difficult graduate job market and the funding
for PhD study will never for PhD study will never
meet the requirement.meet the requirement.
My girlfriend's student visa runs out in August, to overstay will harm anyMy girlfriend's student visa runs out in August, to overstay will harm any
chances we have of legally living together in this country and would chances we have of legally living together in this country and would
possibly end with her confined in an immigration detention centre with possibly end with her confined in an immigration detention centre with
all of the threats that go with it. We are now in the amazing position in which a foreign student can bring their family to live with them in the UK but British students cannot be afforded the same right.all of the threats that go with it. We are now in the amazing position in which a foreign student can bring their family to live with them in the UK but British students cannot be afforded the same right.
As a As a
British citizen I don't have the right to choose who I love. Either I will have to British citizen I don't have the right to choose who I love. Either I will have to
relocate to Malaysia, a country with significantly lower life chances, relocate to Malaysia, a country with significantly lower life chances,
giving up academic study and my life in the UK - or we can be split up for giving up academic study and my life in the UK - or we can be split up for
potentially years as I attempt to find good potentially years as I attempt to find good
work so that I work so that I
can fulfill arbitrary government targets.can fulfill arbitrary government targets.
"I am afraid for my safety in this country because of my national origin""I am afraid for my safety in this country because of my national origin"
Alexa123, moved from Romania to the UKAlexa123, moved from Romania to the UK
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am a Romanian with double am a Romanian with double
citizenship. Romanians were given full rights to work in the UK at the citizenship. Romanians were given full rights to work in the UK at the
beginning of this year. I first came to this country on a beginning of this year. I first came to this country on a
work permit in the late 90s. There has been a dramatic worsening of public work permit in the late 90s. There has been a dramatic worsening of public
attitudes towardsattitudes towards
Romanians since then. I returned in 2007. Romanians since then. I returned in 2007.
Since then a lettings agency asked Since then a lettings agency asked
me to provide a British guarantor, a GP's secretary told me flatly "we dome to provide a British guarantor, a GP's secretary told me flatly "we do
not take Romanian patients" and a bank clerk said not take Romanian patients" and a bank clerk said
to me: "we don't accept Romanian customers". to me: "we don't accept Romanian customers".
I've paid tens of thousands of pounds I've paid tens of thousands of pounds
in national insurance and never taken a penny out in benefits - no housing in national insurance and never taken a penny out in benefits - no housing
benefits, no tax credits, no child benefits - nothing at all. I have benefits, no tax credits, no child benefits - nothing at all. I have
contributed to this society, which I have begun to think of contributed to this society, which I have begun to think of
and love as if it were my own. I have British friends who respect me for the person I am but for the first and love as if it were my own. I have British friends who respect me for the person I am but for the first
time I am afraid for my safety in this country because of my national time I am afraid for my safety in this country because of my national
origin. While I agree that immigration must be discussed in the open, the way origin. While I agree that immigration must be discussed in the open, the way
Romanians are presented to the public by officials and by theRomanians are presented to the public by officials and by the
media - as benefit scroungers who come here and create a housing media - as benefit scroungers who come here and create a housing
crisis - only stirs up hatred and xenophobia. It could crisis - only stirs up hatred and xenophobia. It could
hurt the UK's image as a tolerant society, discourage foreign tourism and talent from choosinghurt the UK's image as a tolerant society, discourage foreign tourism and talent from choosing
the UK. Britain and its people have a lot to gain from its positive the UK. Britain and its people have a lot to gain from its positive
image in the world. It would be such a shame to throw image in the world. It would be such a shame to throw
it away.it away.
"The government can barely do more to make the "The government can barely do more to make the
lives of legal migrants in Britain more difficult"lives of legal migrants in Britain more difficult"
Jonathan Abourbih, 35, moved from Ontario, Canada to ScotlandJonathan Abourbih, 35, moved from Ontario, Canada to Scotland
I moved to the UK in 2008 from Canada and learned that I couldn't plan my life more than 30 days I moved to the UK in 2008 from Canada and learned that I couldn't plan my life more than 30 days
in advance, because a pen in advance, because a pen
stroke by the Home Secretary can send me home packing. I'm a software stroke by the Home Secretary can send me home packing. I'm a software
developer and was attracted to the incredibly innovative UK technology developer and was attracted to the incredibly innovative UK technology
sector. I discovered the (now cancelled) tier one general visa scheme, sector. I discovered the (now cancelled) tier one general visa scheme,
which enticed young, educated, highly-skilled migrants to this country which enticed young, educated, highly-skilled migrants to this country
with the promise of unrestricted employment, and settlement after five with the promise of unrestricted employment, and settlement after five
years of highly-skilled work.years of highly-skilled work.
There's barely more that the government canThere's barely more that the government can
do to make the do to make the
lives of legal migrants in Britain more difficult. The government's lives of legal migrants in Britain more difficult. The government's
"Hostile Environment Working group" (now called the Inter-Ministerial "Hostile Environment Working group" (now called the Inter-Ministerial
Group on migrants' access to benefits and public services) penned the 2014 Immigration Act, Group on migrants' access to benefits and public services) penned the 2014 Immigration Act,
which proposes charging migrants for the use of certain NHS services, which proposes charging migrants for the use of certain NHS services,
despite us paying the same tax as everyone else.despite us paying the same tax as everyone else.
It will restrict ourIt will restrict our
ability to house ourselves and our families - it's possible landlords will just be able to refuse non-British tenants. The government have made something as ability to house ourselves and our families - it's possible landlords will just be able to refuse non-British tenants. The government have made something as
innocuous as a minor traffic offence into automatic grounds for the refusal of innocuous as a minor traffic offence into automatic grounds for the refusal of
further visas.further visas.
Despite all this, I wouldn't leave for the world. I love my Despite all this, I wouldn't leave for the world. I love my
adopted home; I love my friends; I love my partner, whom I met here; I adopted home; I love my friends; I love my partner, whom I met here; I
love the multiculturalism, the landscape, and the Britishlove the multiculturalism, the landscape, and the British
people. I want to people. I want to
believe that the truth about public attitudes to immigration isn't what Ibelieve that the truth about public attitudes to immigration isn't what I
see in the press, but is rather reflected by my real interactions. see in the press, but is rather reflected by my real interactions.
"I've stopped thinking of myself as an immigrant""I've stopped thinking of myself as an immigrant"
Tom Burkard, 70, moved from Michigan in the USA to Norwich.Tom Burkard, 70, moved from Michigan in the USA to Norwich.
My first contact with the British empire was when our destroyer called at Gibraltar on our way to join the US sixth fleet in 1967. A couple of scouse squaddies introduced me to the glories of Watney's Red Barrel and helped me evade the shore patrol. In 1971, just after decimal currency was introduced, I came as a tourist on a boat from the Hook of Holland. I fell in with two chaps returning home on leave. Our boat was late, and when we got to Liverpool Street Station, I couldn't catch my connection to St Albans, so one of the soldiers - a West Indian - invited me to his home in South London. We were somewhat worse for wear when we showed up, but his mother made up the couch (with starched sheets, no less!). This set the tone for the hospitality that I encountered almost everywhere.My first contact with the British empire was when our destroyer called at Gibraltar on our way to join the US sixth fleet in 1967. A couple of scouse squaddies introduced me to the glories of Watney's Red Barrel and helped me evade the shore patrol. In 1971, just after decimal currency was introduced, I came as a tourist on a boat from the Hook of Holland. I fell in with two chaps returning home on leave. Our boat was late, and when we got to Liverpool Street Station, I couldn't catch my connection to St Albans, so one of the soldiers - a West Indian - invited me to his home in South London. We were somewhat worse for wear when we showed up, but his mother made up the couch (with starched sheets, no less!). This set the tone for the hospitality that I encountered almost everywhere.
Sadly, things have got a lot worse in recent years. In the north of Sadly, things have got a lot worse in recent years. In the north of
England, Asians and English live parallel lives, with very little England, Asians and English live parallel lives, with very little
contact. The Anglo-American response to 9/11 has a lot to answer for, contact. The Anglo-American response to 9/11 has a lot to answer for,
but I think the real culprit is the race relations industry, which wouldbut I think the real culprit is the race relations industry, which would
disappear altogether if things had kept on like they were in Brum a disappear altogether if things had kept on like they were in Brum a
generation ago. As for myself, I've long since stopped thinking of generation ago. As for myself, I've long since stopped thinking of
myself as an immigrant.myself as an immigrant.
On the whole, being a Yank is a positive advantage. Back in the 1970s, there were still a lot of people who remembered when the Yanks were "overpaid, oversexed and over here." Fortunately, my uncle taught me the right riposte: Brits were "underpaid, undersexed and under Eisenhower." Eventually I became British and now it's something I seldom think about. Between 1973 and 1984 I lived in Birmingham and witnessed only one racial incident and it was such a relief after all the racial paranoia in the US.On the whole, being a Yank is a positive advantage. Back in the 1970s, there were still a lot of people who remembered when the Yanks were "overpaid, oversexed and over here." Fortunately, my uncle taught me the right riposte: Brits were "underpaid, undersexed and under Eisenhower." Eventually I became British and now it's something I seldom think about. Between 1973 and 1984 I lived in Birmingham and witnessed only one racial incident and it was such a relief after all the racial paranoia in the US.