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New York holds funeral for Officer Rafael Ramos New York holds funeral for Officer Rafael Ramos
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NEW YORK — His childhood friends called him Pote, which loosely translates to “can of goodness” in New York’s Puerto Rican street slang.NEW YORK — His childhood friends called him Pote, which loosely translates to “can of goodness” in New York’s Puerto Rican street slang.
Thousands of police officers from across the country and from Canada and residents from every corner of New York City came Saturday to attend the funeral of “the can of goodness,” Rafael “Ralph” Ramos, the police officer and 40-year-old father of two who was shot dead with his partner, Wenjian Liu, as they sat in their squad car on a meal break in Brooklyn last week.Thousands of police officers from across the country and from Canada and residents from every corner of New York City came Saturday to attend the funeral of “the can of goodness,” Rafael “Ralph” Ramos, the police officer and 40-year-old father of two who was shot dead with his partner, Wenjian Liu, as they sat in their squad car on a meal break in Brooklyn last week.
The services began shortly after 10 a.m. with a prayer and the singing of the national anthem. A crowd of thousands both filled and surrounded Christ Tabernacle, the church where Ramos once served as an alter boy. During the singing of the national anthem, police officers put their hands over their hearts and saluted. Some wept. Now a choir is singing. The services began shortly after 10 a.m. with a prayer and the singing of the national anthem. A crowd of thousands both filled and surrounded Christ Tabernacle, where Ramos was an usher. During the singing of the national anthem, police officers put their hands over their hearts and saluted. Some wept. Now a choir is singing.
Vice President Biden, among the many dignitaries attending the service, thanked the Ramos family for for allowing him to be at the service and expressed his condolences. Vice President Biden, among the many dignitaries attending the service, thanked the Ramos family for allowing him to be at the service and expressed his condolences.
He spoke to Ramos’s two sons: “What handsome boys. … Those boys will get you through all of this.”He spoke to Ramos’s two sons: “What handsome boys. … Those boys will get you through all of this.”
“I speak for whole nation that our hearts ache for you. I do hope you take some solace in the fact that there is 25,000 of the same fraternity who will stand with you and stand with you for the rest of your lives.”“I speak for whole nation that our hearts ache for you. I do hope you take some solace in the fact that there is 25,000 of the same fraternity who will stand with you and stand with you for the rest of your lives.”
Speaking to Ramos’s sons, he said, “He was so so part of you, he will be a part of you forever.” Speaking to Ramos’s sons, Justin and Jaden, he said, “He was so so part of you, he will be a part of you forever.”
To Ramos’s  wife, Biden said: ” The time will come when Rafael’s memory will bring a smile to your lips rather than a tear to your eye.” To Ramos’s wife, Biden said: ” The time will come when Rafael’s memory will bring a smile to your lips rather than a tear to your eye.”
To his mother, Biden said: “The time will come when Rafael’s memory will bring a smile to your lips before it brings a tear to your eye … I promise you, it will happen. My prayer for you is that it will come sooner rather than later.”To his mother, Biden said: “The time will come when Rafael’s memory will bring a smile to your lips before it brings a tear to your eye … I promise you, it will happen. My prayer for you is that it will come sooner rather than later.”
Speaking of police families, Biden said: “They also serve who only stand and wait. Thousands up on thousands upon thousands of American families stand and wait for their husbands and wives, fathers and sons can serve the rest of us. Police officers and police families are a different breed. Thank God for them.”Speaking of police families, Biden said: “They also serve who only stand and wait. Thousands up on thousands upon thousands of American families stand and wait for their husbands and wives, fathers and sons can serve the rest of us. Police officers and police families are a different breed. Thank God for them.”
Biden spoke of the sacrifices officers make in just serving their communities.Biden spoke of the sacrifices officers make in just serving their communities.
“Police officers are a different breed and thank God for them,” he said.“Police officers are a different breed and thank God for them,” he said.
“This is probably the finest police department in the world,” he said of the New York Police Department. “This chaotic miracle stands as a beacon to the world because of the sacrifices the police officers make every single day.”“This is probably the finest police department in the world,” he said of the New York Police Department. “This chaotic miracle stands as a beacon to the world because of the sacrifices the police officers make every single day.”
Speaking specifically of Ramos and Liu, Biden said: “Being a cop is not what they did. It was who they were, like every man and woman here today. You all joined for the same reason, there was something about you that made you feel you should help.”Speaking specifically of Ramos and Liu, Biden said: “Being a cop is not what they did. It was who they were, like every man and woman here today. You all joined for the same reason, there was something about you that made you feel you should help.”
The church was surrounded by a sea of officers in sharply pressed uniforms. They arrived by bus, car, train and plane from a distance and from the precinct around the corner. The streets of the working-class Queens neighborhood of Glendale were filled with police cars from precincts throughout New Jersey and Long Island. Police on foot came from Arizona to Maine. By 7 a.m. Saturday, the line of mourners stretched more than six blocks. Biden said that the Ramos family would never alone. “You have inherited an entire family. The men and women of the New York Police Department will always be there as long as you are alive. They never never never forget.”
New York Gov. Andrew M. Cuomo followed Biden to the stage. He lightened the mood by saying that: “Justin and Jaden are Mets fans which tells us a lot about them. It means they are really tough. Really committed and really really loyal.”
But he also spoke seriously, saying: “An attack on the NYPD is an attack on all of us. It’s an attack on our system of justice. We are a nation of laws. We are a state of laws.
“At the end of the day we are one. One people, one state, one community, one family. Somos uno. Somos uno. Somos uno.”
New York Mayor Bill de Blasio, who has been at odds with the rank and file of the New York Police Department in recent weeks, took the stage next. He received light applause.
Visibly shaken, de Blasio said the Ramos family was  “filled with strength, filled with connection, filled with devotion to each other. It’s something we need to remember.”
He described Ramos as a man of peace, “This officer put his life on the line so other New Yorkers could live in peace.
“Those who stare down danger. Those who sacrifice for all of us, that’s what he wanted to be.”
Outside, police listened to the mayor politely saying it wasn’t the time for politics or tension.
Next to speak was New York Police Commissioner William J. Bratton. Of Ramos and Liu, he said, “They are at the gates of heaven now.”
Bratton, who announced that the slain officers have been promoted to the rank of detective, also spoke of the recent tensions between police and the community: “We don’t see each other, the police officers and the people mad at the police. If we can learn to see each other, then we will heal, as a department as a city as a country. And wouldn’t that be an honor to these officers lives.”
The church was surrounded by a sea of officers in sharply pressed uniforms. They arrived by bus, car, train and plane from a distance and from the precinct around the corner.
“It’s important to be here because it’s an attack on the whole society,” said Anthony Pastore, a Long Island officer and veteran of the Marine Corps. “When I saw the Michael Brown and Eric Garner cases, all I thought about was the idea of voluntary  compliance. When a police officer stops you, you don’t fight. You go through the process. You both stay calm. My guys didn’t have the luxury, he said with tears in his eyes. “They were just executed. They never had a chance.”
The streets of the working-class Queens neighborhood of Glendale were filled with police cars from precincts throughout New Jersey and Long Island. Police on foot came from Arizona to Maine. By 7 a.m. Saturday, the line of mourners stretched more than six blocks.
“It’s powerful to see,” said  Deacon John Cortes of Christ Tabernacle megachurch and a former police officer who knew “Ralphy” for 14 years. They played softball together on the church team, the Kings. Ralphy was “pretty good” on second base, Cortes said, smiling as his voice cracked with emotion.“It’s powerful to see,” said  Deacon John Cortes of Christ Tabernacle megachurch and a former police officer who knew “Ralphy” for 14 years. They played softball together on the church team, the Kings. Ralphy was “pretty good” on second base, Cortes said, smiling as his voice cracked with emotion.
“He just so in love with his sons and this church and being in the community,” he said, as he sipped coffee outside the church. “And he was that kind of cop. He was here every Sunday. He wanted to play a role.”“He just so in love with his sons and this church and being in the community,” he said, as he sipped coffee outside the church. “And he was that kind of cop. He was here every Sunday. He wanted to play a role.”
Cortes said the irony is that Ramos didn’t fit the stereotype of the white officer acting aggressively toward African Americans, an issue at the center of recent protests. “He was a Puerto Rican  kid who grew up on these streets,” he said. “This was a man who worked in our marriage ministry, counseling other young couples, he would say, ‘If you have an argument, just be kind. Don’t fight.’”Cortes said the irony is that Ramos didn’t fit the stereotype of the white officer acting aggressively toward African Americans, an issue at the center of recent protests. “He was a Puerto Rican  kid who grew up on these streets,” he said. “This was a man who worked in our marriage ministry, counseling other young couples, he would say, ‘If you have an argument, just be kind. Don’t fight.’”
Many of the police who came Saturday said they wouldn’t be able to get into the 800-person-capacity church because it was already filled. But they would stand on the sidewalk, quietly and in respect. With attendance of Saturday’s service easily exceeding the capacity of the church, television screens have been set up for those outside. Streets around the church were closed, and the crowd gathered behind barricades. Some held up photographs of the slain officers. One man had a sign reading, “God bless the NYPD.” Some houses had handwritten signs that said: “We honor you. We respect you.”
“It’s important to be here because it’s an attack on the whole society,” said Anthony Pastore, a Long Island officer and veteran of the Marine Corps. “When I saw the Michael Brown and Eric Garner cases, all I thought about was the idea of voluntary  compliance. When a police officer stops you, you don’t fight. You go through the process. You both stay calm. My guys didn’t have the luxury, he said with tears in his eyes. “They were just executed. They never had a chance.”
Ramos’s older son, Justin, made remarks Friday at an eight-hour wake. “Dad, I’m forever grateful of the sacrifices you made to provide for me and Jaden,” he said, referring to his younger brother, as officers gathered on the sidewalk and watched on television screens.
Memorial funds have been set up for both officers, and both have been now promoted to the highest rank of detective, which will increase their family’s benefits.
“It really is a brotherhood,” said New Orleans Police Capt. Michael Glasser said Friday outside Christ Tabernacle, where Ramos had served as an usher.
The funeral comes amid a national conversation and protest movement around the treatment of African Americans by law enforcement following the August shooting death of unarmed 18-year-old Michael Brown in Ferguson, Mo., and a New York grand jury’s decision not to indict an officer for the death of Eric Garner, the Staten Island man who was killed by a chokehold in July.The funeral comes amid a national conversation and protest movement around the treatment of African Americans by law enforcement following the August shooting death of unarmed 18-year-old Michael Brown in Ferguson, Mo., and a New York grand jury’s decision not to indict an officer for the death of Eric Garner, the Staten Island man who was killed by a chokehold in July.
The man who shot Ramos and Officer Wenjian Liu, 32, had vowed on social media to “put wings on pigs.”The man who shot Ramos and Officer Wenjian Liu, 32, had vowed on social media to “put wings on pigs.”
Their deaths have put a chill on protests that in recent weeks have turned the city into the heart of a police reform movement. The city’s progressive council members and Mayor Bill de Blasio had been pressuring the police department to retrain officers and talk openly about the use of force on African Americans. Their deaths have put a chill on protests that in recent weeks have turned the city into the heart of a police reform movement. The city’s progressive council members and mayor had been pressuring the police department to retrain officers and talk openly about the use of force on African Americans.
But now, New York is a city in anguish and anger — but for different reasons for neighbors and even family members who fall on different sides of a divisive debate.But now, New York is a city in anguish and anger — but for different reasons for neighbors and even family members who fall on different sides of a divisive debate.
On Friday, mourners arrived for a daytime wake and for a closed memorial service for Ramos’s wife, Maritza, and their two sons. Police came from the 84th Precinct, at the end of the Brooklyn Bridge, where Ramos and Liu left last week to police a public housing project that had seen a particular spike in crime. More than a dozen giant flower arrangements were set up inside Christ Tabernacle. An arrangement with Ramos’s shield number spelled out in roses and lilies was placed on top of the hearse. On Friday, mourners arrived for a daytime wake and for a closed memorial service for Ramos’s wife, Maritza, and their two sons.
Liu’s funeral is still being planned since his family is waiting for relatives from China to arrive. He arrived in the United States at age 12, almost exactly 20 years ago on Christmas Eve. Ramos’s older son, Justin, made remarks Friday at an eight-hour wake. “Dad, I’m forever grateful of the sacrifices you made to provide for me and Jaden,” he said, referring to his younger brother, as officers gathered on the sidewalk and watched on television screens.
Memorial funds have been set up for both officers, and both have been now promoted to the highest rank of detective, which will increase their family’s benefits.
“It really is a brotherhood,” said New Orleans Police Capt. Michael Glasser said Friday outside Christ Tabernacle.
Police came from the 84th Precinct, at the end of the Brooklyn Bridge, where Ramos and Liu left last week to police a public housing project that had seen a particular spike in crime. More than a dozen giant flower arrangements were set up inside Christ Tabernacle. An arrangement with Ramos’s shield number spelled out in roses and lilies was placed on top of the hearse.
Ramos was a regular on these Queens streets of garden apartments and modest homes, in a largely immigrant neighborhood. His church of 14 years served as the comforting and encouraging heart of the community, with members who  hail from Spanish-speaking countries.Ramos was a regular on these Queens streets of garden apartments and modest homes, in a largely immigrant neighborhood. His church of 14 years served as the comforting and encouraging heart of the community, with members who  hail from Spanish-speaking countries.
Ramos, a New Yorker of Puerto Rican origin, had planned to come to Christ Tabernacle the night he was killed. He was becoming a lay chaplain and graduating from a community-crisis program.Ramos, a New Yorker of Puerto Rican origin, had planned to come to Christ Tabernacle the night he was killed. He was becoming a lay chaplain and graduating from a community-crisis program.
Some neighbors held white roses for “a humble man,” who had an “infectious smile” and worked as a church usher, “willing to help at any capacity, helping people to their seats, moms with their baby carriages or the elderly in and out of our elevator,” according to a church statement.Some neighbors held white roses for “a humble man,” who had an “infectious smile” and worked as a church usher, “willing to help at any capacity, helping people to their seats, moms with their baby carriages or the elderly in and out of our elevator,” according to a church statement.
His Facebook cover photo read: “If your way isn’t working, try God’s way.”His Facebook cover photo read: “If your way isn’t working, try God’s way.”
Ramos was once an East New York graffiti artist, his childhood friend Israel Marrero told the media. As Ramos grew older, he said he wanted to help young people by becoming a police officer.Ramos was once an East New York graffiti artist, his childhood friend Israel Marrero told the media. As Ramos grew older, he said he wanted to help young people by becoming a police officer.
“It was a very tough, dangerous  neighborhood,” said Marrero. “He just wanted to do good. We always teased him about that.”“It was a very tough, dangerous  neighborhood,” said Marrero. “He just wanted to do good. We always teased him about that.”
This week, Ramos was remembered as a family man and ardent Mets fan, who enjoyed watching games with his sons.This week, Ramos was remembered as a family man and ardent Mets fan, who enjoyed watching games with his sons.
His 13-year-old son, Jaden, wrote on his Facebook page the night his father was killed: “It’s horrible that someone gets shot dead just for being a police officer. I will always love you and never forget you.”His 13-year-old son, Jaden, wrote on his Facebook page the night his father was killed: “It’s horrible that someone gets shot dead just for being a police officer. I will always love you and never forget you.”
At the memorial service Friday, the slim teenager said: “Dad, you were my best friend. I’ll miss you with every fiber of my being. You are my hero.”At the memorial service Friday, the slim teenager said: “Dad, you were my best friend. I’ll miss you with every fiber of my being. You are my hero.”
On Friday afternoon, Ramos’s casket was draped with the New York Police Department’s green-and-white striped flag along with a U.S. flag, and it was carried by department pallbearers — the police honor guard — into Christ Tabernacle for Saturday’s service.On Friday afternoon, Ramos’s casket was draped with the New York Police Department’s green-and-white striped flag along with a U.S. flag, and it was carried by department pallbearers — the police honor guard — into Christ Tabernacle for Saturday’s service.
On Saturday morning, the Brooklyn-Queens Expressway was backed up with police officers from across the country and other mourners have pulled over and gotten out of their cars just to pay tribute.On Saturday morning, the Brooklyn-Queens Expressway was backed up with police officers from across the country and other mourners have pulled over and gotten out of their cars just to pay tribute.
“It’s always like this, we could be miles from the church but we would still drive hours,” said Roy Omess, a Westchester, N.Y., corrections officer who drove down with his department. “We don’t care if we just stand outside. This is what we do.”“It’s always like this, we could be miles from the church but we would still drive hours,” said Roy Omess, a Westchester, N.Y., corrections officer who drove down with his department. “We don’t care if we just stand outside. This is what we do.”
Jet Blue said it provided free flights from across the country for about 670 law enforcement officers to attend Ramos’s funeral. The airline has said it will also provide transportation for Liu’s services, which are still being arranged to accommodate members of his family, many who still live in China.Jet Blue said it provided free flights from across the country for about 670 law enforcement officers to attend Ramos’s funeral. The airline has said it will also provide transportation for Liu’s services, which are still being arranged to accommodate members of his family, many who still live in China.
With attendance of Saturday’s service easily exceeding the capacity of the church, television screens have been set up for those outside. Streets around the church were closed, and residents gathered behind barricades. Some held up photographs of the slain officers. One man had a sign reading, “God bless the NYPD.” Some houses had handwritten signs that said: “We honor you. We respect you.” A rift has developed between New York’s mayor  and the police department due to comments he made after the grand jury’s decision in the Garner case. De Blasio in a speech on the need to change police procedures said he feared for the life of his teenage son, who is biracial. New York police officers took offense, and after the slaying of Ramos and Liu, some blamed de Blasio.
A rift has developed between New York Mayor Bill de Blasio  and the police department due to comments he made after the grand jury’s decision in the Garner case. De Blasio in a speech on the need to change police procedures said he feared for the life of his teenage son, who is biracial. New York police officers took offense, and after the slaying of Ramos and Liu, some blamed de Blasio.
Tensions have been high since the shooting, with police across the country investigating threats and making arrests. New York police have arrested six people accused of threatening officers since Ramos and Liu were slain by Ismaaiyl Brinsley, 28, who shot himself during police pursuit. Brinsley had referred on social media to cases of white police officers killing unarmed African Americans. A seventh man was arrested Thursday on gun charges after a bystander overheard him making threats against officers and talking about guns in his home.Tensions have been high since the shooting, with police across the country investigating threats and making arrests. New York police have arrested six people accused of threatening officers since Ramos and Liu were slain by Ismaaiyl Brinsley, 28, who shot himself during police pursuit. Brinsley had referred on social media to cases of white police officers killing unarmed African Americans. A seventh man was arrested Thursday on gun charges after a bystander overheard him making threats against officers and talking about guns in his home.
With threats to police continuing online, there was also a high level of security at Saturday’s service, with officers on rooftops watching the crowd through binoculars, canine units moving through the crowd of mourners and helping to check parked cars and Emergency Services Unit officers patrolling with assault rifles.With threats to police continuing online, there was also a high level of security at Saturday’s service, with officers on rooftops watching the crowd through binoculars, canine units moving through the crowd of mourners and helping to check parked cars and Emergency Services Unit officers patrolling with assault rifles.
Ramos’s captain, Sergio Centa, said it was “a scary time for the police department right now. You just tell them to be safe, go out there in pairs and be extra cautious.”Ramos’s captain, Sergio Centa, said it was “a scary time for the police department right now. You just tell them to be safe, go out there in pairs and be extra cautious.”
De Blasio asked demonstrators to suspend protests, saying they were deeply divisive during a period of remembrance for the officers. But demonstrations continued. And activists have said that the man who shot the officers was mentally ill and it’s a shame that his actions are overshadowing their message.De Blasio asked demonstrators to suspend protests, saying they were deeply divisive during a period of remembrance for the officers. But demonstrations continued. And activists have said that the man who shot the officers was mentally ill and it’s a shame that his actions are overshadowing their message.
A plane trailing a banner reading “DE BLASIO, OUR BACKS HAVE TURNED TO YOU” flew Friday over the Hudson River. Police officers said in an online statement that they  felt betrayed by the mayor.A plane trailing a banner reading “DE BLASIO, OUR BACKS HAVE TURNED TO YOU” flew Friday over the Hudson River. Police officers said in an online statement that they  felt betrayed by the mayor.
“It is our opinion that Mayor de Blasio’s dangerous and irresponsible comments about his and his wife’s concern for their son’s safety at the hands of the NYPD fueled the flames that led to civil unrest, and potentially to the deaths of PO Wenjian Liu and PO Rafael Ramos, as well as the continued threats against NYPD personnel,” the statement said. “The Mayor shows us no respect, and encourages the public to follow his lead.”“It is our opinion that Mayor de Blasio’s dangerous and irresponsible comments about his and his wife’s concern for their son’s safety at the hands of the NYPD fueled the flames that led to civil unrest, and potentially to the deaths of PO Wenjian Liu and PO Rafael Ramos, as well as the continued threats against NYPD personnel,” the statement said. “The Mayor shows us no respect, and encourages the public to follow his lead.”
Ramos’s family, however, said they supported the mayor attending the services. The mayor, who attended Friday’s wake, arrived Saturday morning at the funeral.Ramos’s family, however, said they supported the mayor attending the services. The mayor, who attended Friday’s wake, arrived Saturday morning at the funeral.
At the end of Saturday’s service, Ramos will be buried in Cypress Hills Cemetery in Brooklyn.At the end of Saturday’s service, Ramos will be buried in Cypress Hills Cemetery in Brooklyn.