What you can learn from a dying breath
http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2015/mar/05/what-you-can-learn-from-a-dying-breath Version 0 of 1. “So, what does it feel like to die?” asks Richard Stephens (The dead zone, G2, 2 March). My brother was in the stage of long, long breaths with lots of time between them. When he looked dead, I shouted his name in his ear. Brother: “Don’t shout at me. Why am I not dead? I dreamed I was dead.” Me: “I think you are not dead for the same reason as the rest of us. We’re waiting to die and don’t know when we are going to die. But I think you are going to die very soon because you are very ill and weak.” Silence. Some very slow breaths. Me: “What’s it like for you?” Longer silence, but eventually he breathed in once more, and as he let the breath out he whispered: “Fine.” That helped me. It was a lovely last present.Peter BruggenLondon |